Disclosure - I probably qualify as...

Disclosure - I probably qualify as one of the "regulars" that many posters comment on with respect to many girls hanging out too much with. Having said that and admitting to being part of the problem, I kind of have to disagree with the frequent comment that girls are hanging out at tables with regulars that aren't spending any money on them. Trust me, we are spending money on them so it's not a matter of them not wanting to come take your money. There are several very talented and liberal dancers that do not hang with regulars that often. These inculde Sunshine (very high mileage even with first timers), Rachael, Devon, Dakota, Precious (although I haven't seen her in several months), Georgia, and Kendra. While it is true that girls hang with their regulars more at BBF than pretty much any other SC I've ever been to, if you can't get the attention of the girl you're interested in, you aren't trying very hard, imo. If you are in town for just one night and have disposable cash just tell the girl of your choice straight out that you want to spend money on her. If you live nearby, it doesn't take much to become a "regular". Show up twice a month for a couple of months and you too can become part of the problem. And the benefits of being a regular are extremely good for the relatively small amount of $$ you pay.