Dave1487
Comments by Dave1487
review comment
6 years ago
dparnells
Your strategy sounds on par with the way I approach these trips so you're not alone. I once heard someone say "the greatest part of any drug is the moment right before you take it." For me, savoring the excitement of spending the night with a beautiful girl is half (if not more) of the fun. So walking around from club to club and seeing girls on the street before making a decision is all part of the game plan. Sounds like you had a great trip, thanks for sharing your review.
review comment
6 years ago
Dave1487
Hey everyone, giving another update! Weekend was incredible, better than weekend before as I felt more prepped. I think I realize that while it's good to have a game plan...a girl's performance is luck of the draw as some who were great downstairs lacked enthusiasm once we went upstairs and vice versa: I went with a "trophy" girl expecting a bit of lame performance as she wasn't that talkative downstairs but it was late and I just wanted to bang something fierce and she was extremely fun upstairs to my disbelief. I when I said hi to her downstairs she barely smiled...the only reason I went with her is because her body was insane and I really just wanted to bang and call it a night...but when we got upstairs she was so much fun, telling me to pull her hair, choke her, etc. It was awesome, she even insisted I join her in the shower after.
And also...while this NEVER has happened to me and I'm not even sure you'll believe me...something pretty insane happened. I went with a girl who was cute, but not the hottest...skinny, 21, cute face, small A cup boobs. She was playful downstairs and kind of funny so I took her upstairs for $80. We banged, and then I asked her for a light back scratch before she left (fav thing after sex) and she didn't really understand what I wanted so I did it to her...which led to me giving her a massage...I actually like giving those and fondling her body a little more was more than enough motivation for me. SO...she winds up closing her eyes to the massage after 15 minutes and then I layed down and she fell asleep on top of me. (about 1am). We both wake up about 2:30am and start making out...like we had been dating, she then gave me a blowjob with no condom and cuddled with me a little longer after and left at 4am. She never asked for more money but I gave her $110 total as a $30 tip. Kinda crazy, it actually seemed like she liked me and did the blowjob purely because she wanted to. She also wanted to have sex with no condom and in the heat of the moment I did put in just the tip but literally pulled out after 5 seconds and said "no we can't" haha. She initiated it, as when were making out and she blew me she then hopped on without saying anything. Anyway...NUTS!!
review comment
6 years ago
Dave1487
Hey tbot1102 (and everyone else) thanks for the advise. I personally aim for the "trophy fuck" (obviously somewhere in my subconscious I need the validation of being with an extremely hot girl haha) so weekends sound best. I am anxious to get back and avoid the mistakes I made last week so just booked a trip leaving tomorrow through Monday so will have Sat, Sun, Mon (afternoon) so a mix of both scenarios perhaps. Luckily I am able to combine trips like this with work so I am able to expense my flight and Ubers on weekends in the LA/San Diego area. I will report back on my experiences later this week. And then, while money isn't tight...I will need to chill a bit or I will be broke if I keep going back every weekend. haha
Thanks again everyone!
review comment
6 years ago
Dave1487
Hey everyone, question: I have a chance to go back either next week for Monday - Thursday (3 nights) OR From Fri-Sun. (2 nights) depending how I work this into a work trip I have to go on.
What is the quality difference in girls from a Mon/Tues/Wed compared to a Fri/Sat? Is it a significant difference in reduction in quantity and quality or not a huge difference...just less people (patrons) during the week? Money is a factor but not a deal breaker so using the HK VIP card to get 80% off my room for Mon/Tues would be awesome...but if the quality of girls would disappoint me after seeing the amazing choices from last Fri/Sat I might just opt for the Fri/Sat option.
Anyone have any suggestions for me? Thanks in advance
review comment
6 years ago
Dave1487
Yeah I thought so haha. I'm going back next weekend with a friend and will keep all of this in mind. I really can't complain too much since we wound up settling on $150 for 2 hours once she got upstairs and I realized how rare a girl with her looks and positive attitude were.
review comment
6 years ago
Dave1487
Thanks everyone, lots of good tips here. What is a normal and what is a high end drink price? I mentioned in my review I met a unicorn (super hot and very fun attitude) and when I ordered her a drink it came to $22. I thought I was being ripped off but I was not about to let $22 ruin my night with this girl. Has this happened to anyone else...or...is this normal price? This was a Friday night at 10pm.
review comment
6 years ago
Dave1487
Ok, thanks mongo...so then it seems I was the jerk in that scenario haha. I am going back soon and will buy a drink asap if I move to a table. Your approach seems reasonable so glad to get your perspective and that makes total sense.
review comment
6 years ago
Dave1487
Hey guys, thanks for your added advise. I have a question for you: what is the protocol for sitting down with a girl and having to buy a drink within the first minute? As I am sure you are aware the second I sit down with a girl I have 3 servers almost push each other out of the way to run up and say "drink for girl" before I can even ask a girl her name. I have NO PROBLEM buying a drink for a girl I'm chatting with, but in an ideal situation I would like to spend 3 minutes talking to a girl to decide if I want to keep talking to her. If after 3 minutes I want to keep chatting, I am not cheap and happy to buy them a drink. That being said, what's the protocol here...I actually said no the a server over the weekend and said politely "just sat down, perhaps in a few minutes" and he just stood there and gave me an odd look and didn't leave...talk about a mood killer. Made me appear cheap and also made it awkward for me. Any thoughts here, is it standard protocol I must order a drink immediately just to talk to a girl if I choose to sit? Any advise? If I want to talk to a girl first do I need to do it standing to avoid this and only sit down if I'm ready to buy her a drink?
review comment
6 years ago
Dave1487
@mongo...appreciate you confirming prices and would agree 100%. I also want to point out that while it's possible to nickel and dime and negotiate down their asking price maybe 10-15%, it's not always worth it. For example, I read all these reviews saying how important it is to not inflate prices for others by immediately agreeing to their asking price and always offer a little less. The one time I did that over the weekend, it kind of killed the mood. After having a great time chatting for 15 minutes and several intimate lap dances, girl said $100 and I said $80. She said $100 is really her price and she's worth it and I countered with "I only have $80". (which was not the truth) and she said OK but it definitely changed the mood and became much more of a business transaction then it was leading up to be. Upstairs she was good, but I honestly think negotiating changed the mood between us and things took a slight downward turn. Just worth me noting my experiences to make others aware so they can make their own decisions.
@tahoecruz...YESSSS!! It's such a good indicator they are not interested in "performing" for you but rather just a "dead fish" situation like you mentioned. Obviously exceptions to the rule, but such a good rule of thumb to follow. The fact the redhead you mentioned just walked away shows their attitude. AND..same thing happened to me this weekend. After getting burned by saying yes and then having a terrible performance I said no to the next few girls who quickly said "arriba" and they literally rolled their eyes and walked away. Glad we can all share our experiences here to learn from one another.
Thanks guys!! Love these comments/questions...keep em rolling in!
review comment
6 years ago
Dave1487
haha couldn't agree more Cristobal. I actually met a "trophy" girl Friday night but she spoke no English and I had just got there so took a pass as I was still taking it all in. Fast forward to Sat night it was packed and options were thinning so I saw her again and figured let's give it a shot. She totally surprised me...not to give too much info but I sometimes like it more slow/girlfriend type action and she read the vibes and performed awesome. Totally one of my highlights.
Summit21...yup, it's the hardest part for me. I tell myself to look for girls having the most fun but like Cristobal says I seem to always search for the "trophy" girls and it becomes hit or miss on performance. On Saturday I picked a skinny cutie (I'd give a 7/10 in looks) who was tearing up the dance stage really getting into it and smiling a lot and she was awesome upstairs. Best performance of the weekend for sure so I agree with everyone on this...just so hard to say no to the 10's hahaha. It's extreme validation for the ego lol