I have found taking cigarettes, preferably those the female dancers smoke. I place the box on the table. The girls know you will share. Did this at a new club in OKC in March . I had to 8 n a 9, the latter a cubanita my preference. I refused to get a dance until I got a drink, the club was full. Made small talk and shared cigarettes. These girls get anxiety so the cig calms them down. Plus they will return for more cigarettes n small talk.
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