minxkitty

I pretty much agree with everything HottieHeidi has said. First of all, let it be known a majority of strippers have significant others and AREN'T at the club to get banged or taken out to dinner. 1.) I appreciate great tips but even if someone makes it rain on me, I only visit them after to say thank you. I show gratitude, then ask for a dance. If you tell me you don't "do lapdances" I am GONE because I am at WORK to make MONEY. I don't care about conversation, I don't care about you, and it takes quite a bit of money up front to get me to sit down and miss out on the chance to make more money. 2.) "Maybe later" means "I don't want to dance with you but I'm not man enough to say no." If you say that to me I leave and probably won't check back. If it's exceptionally slow and I happen to walk by you at the end of the night I will ask if you are ready for your dance yet. Still no? You won't see me again. 3.) I don't drink at work. If someone offers me a drink I request a bottle of water. Not tipping a girl and not giving her lapdances doesn't gain respect, it makes you look like a broke douchebag. I find it far more respectful when someone tips me for my time or doesn't usually get lapdances but pulls me into the back room just to talk. Paying for my time is respectful, expecting me to waste my time on you for free is disrespectful. I don't talk to people that aren't money. By the way, strippers ARE sexual objects when we are at work. We expect to be treated that way. Not paying for it is just suggesting you expect entertainment for free.