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You "dance" for other men, some of whom may get off. He pays for "dances" with other women. Sounds like an even deal to me. If you become disturbed by his getting off with other entertainers, expect him to become disturbed with your current way of making money.

In many cases, yes. Sometimes a lap dance is hardly a dance at all. It is just a grind session with the clothes still on. The whole point is that the paying customer gets off. Any outcome short of that is a disappointment. Some dancers develop their method so such a thing can happen. Some do not.