Im a dancer and these guys don't annoy me too bad, but they do a little. Personally I think they are at least slightly rude...they are getting a free show. They pay the house and don't tip me, I get no money and they look at my naked body. I wouldn't be there if I wasn't making money, neither would any other girl, especially when we have to pay to work....so they are like people on welfare relying on other customers to come in and spend so they have something to look at, and in my book - that's rude. Where they reaaaally annoy me is when they try to grab, or guilt trip me for not spending time with them. Do they think I'm in there inhaling second hand smoke and walking around in 8 in heels for the fun of it? If you're going to go to a club and not spend even a few dollars at the stage, at least be nice to the girls, let them work, understand they are there for WORK and to pay their bills.
Um ok, first strippers ARE still girls, we do have feelings. I see a lot of girls going home crying because of bad customers. Yes we know it comes with the job, but it still hurts us, and a lot of girls work as strippers because they are in a bad situation and need $. Every night I work I come in contact with people who treat me with NO respect simply bc of my occupation, they call me names and try to get things for free and assume I will have sex for money or that I do drugs or that I dropped out of school, soooo when I get a guy who is very nice to me, even if he spends a dollar on stage, I show him appreciation by being respectful back. He can spend a dollar and be nice and expect a dollar's worth of my time and Im MUCH nicer to him that some guy who works my $20 dances to $15 and buys 10 of them, and tries to get more for free. Ive had guys pull a dollar back on stage because they want me to stay longer in front of them, and I leave them and refuse them dances and wont talk to them the rest of the night because I like to go home in a good mood. In other words, dont be an a$$hole. Of course there are girls who have no respect no matter what...I work with quite a few of these. You know how they come about? They are dancers who have worked for years and have been treated like crap for a long time, thats what happens to them.
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