I love to hit the clubs w/ my bf...sometimes go alone too. The clubs near the college are pretty trendy and there are always female customers on weekend nights...strip clubs are pretty mainstream now.
Regarding the goth dancers... I like clubs that offer a lot of variety. It's no fun if all the girls look or dress alike.
Personally I like to leave a club with a little perfume or glitter lingering on me... helps me retain that 'tingly' feeling a little longer :)
A dancer's overall appearance is more important than her shape... great hair, nice smile, and poise go a long way. I've seen plenty of girls that could have been 10's but fell short in personality, dance ability, grooming, etc.
It is very frustrating if you are ignored for a long time, but some of the dancers are not sure if they should approach female customers or not... but once they notice you buy a dance, they start coming around a lot more.
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