docdangerous

The great thing is that you're both willing to explore the wonderful world of sex together. I remember the first time we went to a strip club (after many years of marriage). Wow... what a night. Now, we hit swingers clubs and I've had experiences that most men only dream of and few would even believe (all the other swinger guys know what I mean though). I agree with others, take your time, move slow. It's only sex and not worth a solid relationship. If your girl is willing to admit to considering a strip club visit (even that's hard for some at first), then that means she's willing to explore. Remember that women have a lifetime of cultural and societal pressure to overcome. Besides, women NEVER feel comfortable with themselves. If she feels pressured, you're screwed. If you're not praising how sexy she is everyday, you're screwed. This is a case where only carrots work, a stick will only get you in a club with a woman determined to ruin your night.