Expensive erotic experience, good pizza, long con!
I was disappointed with people not reviewing this club/privately organized party. I posted a few comments in the past, but I think I should write a full scale descriptive review.
Signup on their page and they send you weekly invites (intially it might be after 2-3 weeks, in the club they have someone with a tablet moving around). You need to show the email on phone to get entry. Entry is 50 bucks - on the extreme end (for which they provide midnight pizza). Bar exists unlike some other byob private parties. Dances are standard 20 each, with close 2 way contact.
Organization:
Organized as a private event in Park Slope or Midtown. It has the vibe of how your friends would organize a party with strippers with some decorum. It starts queuing up outside around 9 or something, so better go late. Most people that come are groups of professionals. SVT says they are not geared towards younger ppl, but I didn’t find any PL over 40. Mostly mid tiered finance and IT professionals -good mix even in groups, you might see 1 white, 1 asian, 1 indian and 1 AA and 1 hispanic. I am making it up but it’s pretty well balanced. No suits, whales or sharks, something that keeps the atmosphere friendly and even among PLs and strippers alike. There’s a backroom with shared couches around for LDs.
Girls:
Mostly mid 20s, semi professional girls. Generally over 8, mostly white and eastern european and a few latinas. Didn’t see any AA or asians (i saw 1 asian during multiple visits, I distinctly remember because one of the groups which had an asian dude egged him on to talk to her and he joked if he wanted to take dances from an asian he would rather find them in China).
Half of the girls are from far off places, have waitressing or bartending jobs. Half of them are students studying humanities, marketing etc. I even found some sweet girl doing masters in music who sort of broke my thighs.
Untold rules:
Its nearly impossible to get OTC. Its also not feasible to get extras because the backroom is shared dance area. Its ymmv, but these rules simplify your evening. I asked a few girls how they found the place etc but got no clear information.
YMMV:
General practice is the girls approach you and spend some time talking at the bar or front room. There’s low pressure to get a dance immediately. The girls call the shots and may refuse dancing if they feel uncomfortable during the dance. Lapdances are 2 way contact and increase in intensity as they progress. Most girls would undress over 2 songs, so assume them as foreplay. After that...girls are generally accomodating of light kissing and squueezing there boobs and nipples and so on. FIV may not be allowed. I prefer to keep it dignified. YMMV extremely.
In my personal experience 50% of the girls were extremely nice and had good experience. One of the gorgeous ones whom I called dibs on immediately as she arrived, danced with closed eyes and orgasmed midway after 5 intimate dances and had to stop. I had to go to the restroom to calm myself down and ..... She wasn’t comfortable dancing for me the entire night after that, but still quite friendly. I never saw her again. I believe we fell in love and she quit stripping for me :)
Long Con:
There is no stage dancing.
As above the idea is you and the girl are going to build a chemistry and go long like with a girlfriend. 5 dances with the same girl are average. Some may go up to 10-12 dances. I saw many dudes hugging and chugging for more than 2-3 songs at a time. I assume thats how they might have sex with their girlfriend, notwithstanding the physics of it.
Other Cons:
Girls change. Some girls dancing may lack any standards whatsoever. The place is good for newbies especially because the rules are lax than regular club and they might be interested more in the dancing and not care about the stage. The vibe is friendly, you don’t have bouncers or bathroom trolls. But its an expensive affair.