Who considers Men who have Girlfriends....

I don't see any cheating involved unless something extra is taking place such as sex. Of course if a woman is going to break up because her man looked at another woman, I wouldn't want to be with her anyway. Strip clubs usually just come down to guys looking at girls and not much more. It'd be an orgy otherwise.

If a guy had a girlfriend and she went to see some male dancers at a club I wouldn't consider it cheating unless of course she engaged in sexual activity. I might be very suspicious though because I heard females tend to do a whole lot more touching and groping that would get guys thrown out of gentleman's clubs. Regardless of whether it's cheating or not, I don't believe it's good to keep secrets in an intimate relationship that's going to last.

Cheating is making a commitment. Where's the commitment in a lap dance?