The #1 Reason To Always Negotiate

Negotiating is usually seen as being cheap, scummy, and even selfish in this community. The fact is, it's to establish boundaries and to get an idea about mileage before committing. For example, if you're negotiating prices for a dance, it's beneficial for you to be straight up, and say exactly what you want, and where your hands will be wandering. If she becomes offensive, then that's not a really good sign. Most of the time this can be communicated just by touch alone. Remember to set the tone, and get in touch with the emotional side not the logical. By teasing, being playful, and even showing some signs of disinterest, all increase the chances of both having a good time. Doing these things, definitely separate you as a regular, and usually breaks some of the barrier down, for both to enjoy each other's company. Makes it all feel natural and real, and not robotic.