Dancers who are honest

I've been a dancer for 18 years I started dancing 1999 and it's now 2017. I have worked in Minnesota, Iowa, Columbia South Carolina, Atlanta, Dallas, Las Vegas. When I started dancing it was very easy to make money but I also worked in Minnesota where it was no alcohol but fully nude. I remember that all you had to do was dance and how you spoke to the customers was key in getting a dance. I was always myself and never fake I would sit there and talk and show pictures of my life and earn trust. I had a lot of repeat customers , it was very easy to make money the times that it was not easy to make money as when they have been in the club before and the last time they came in the club they get ripped off by a girl who promised them things in Vip that I obviously could not happen. I've worked in all types of clubs and every single state and county has different rules and guidelines every manager is completely different and you can get away with a lot more at certain clubs. The major problem I have is other girls ruining it for the other girls if you're not that girl that's going to go in the back and give the guy what he wants then don't go in the VIP and pretend that you're going to do things that you're not going to do just to take their money. Stay on the floor and make your money on the floor. I have always had a happy medium and I do what I do I don't do anymore and I don't do any less but the end result is always the same, I always get told that I am the best answer they've ever had and appreciate that I did not lie to them or rob them of their money. I take great pride in being one of those dancers that always tells the truth and gives the customers what they want to an extent. I've never went in the VIP room and told somebody I was going to do something that I clearly was not going to do because I knew that that customer either was not going to come back or I was going to leave such a bad taste in their mouth that they will not come back to the club ever again. It was never about the money to make that night it was about trying to make money for the future and you can't do that if you're constantly lying to customers and making him not want to come back. Bottom line is that being real and yourself makes you way more money than putting on a dress and doing your hair and nails and trying to look like $1 million expecting to make $1 million when you don't do the work for it. Now I'm not saying you have to be a prostitute to make this money trust me I've had plenty of guys that have not wanted me to do anything in the VIP room and give me plenty of money just for being real and giving them a good time I've also been on the other end where they want everything and barely pay you any money for it and that's just not cool because if you want me to do all these things that you want me to do then you should pay for it. So with each customer the experiences are pretty much the same but I've always taking into consideration the person and how much money they're spending and if they're being respectful of me then I will respect them back - it's a give-and-take relationship you can't walk into a strip club and expect the girls to do everything you want when you're only offering $100 - i've also seen it where girls do absolutely nothing and get $2000-$5000 and that blows my mind - but I'm also going to assume that they see them outside of the club as well and that's just something I have never done. I will never meet a guy outside of the club because I have a child and I don't feel that it safe for me to do that because we don't know if their crazy and want to harm you. I've never had a problem with safety issues in 18 years because I don't drink or put myself in a position to be harmed. My money isn't what it use to be and that's because they're a lot more girls doing a lot more for less money and it's hard to compete with that. A lot of girls are meeting guys outside the club and when sex is that easy to obtain then it makes the strip club kind of pointless and someone else. If men want a prostitute they need to go to back pages or go to find a prostitute and not expect every girl in the strip club to be a prostitute. What I do in the club is what I do in the club and each club is different whether I can do things a little more because I don't want to lose my job and I need to continue going to my job. Men need to understand that if the girl does more than what the club allows and they get caught that they are going to lose their job. So if you're expecting a lot when you go to the strip club you need to do your research and find out if that strip club is the kind of place where those things can happen. Also I've always wondered why a guy would want to have sex with a stripper and if it's that easy to get her to have sex just imagine how many people she's had sex with that day or that week and why would you want to have sex with somebody that's had sex with that many people in that day ? You can still have fun and get off with out actually having Intercourse- remember we don't want a disease and we have a life outside the club- most of the women that are dancing are in relationships and have children at home and they don't want to be sick and have sexually transmitted disease is all for a few hundred dollars- point is that there are a lot of girls willing to give you what you want if you don't go after the big fake blonde hair and the perfect body. Those girls are stuck up and don't care about anything but their money- go after the girls that actually look normal and talk normal and those are the ones that you can probably have a better time with- if you go after the girl that looks like a Golddigger she's going to be a Golddigger!! Also don't go to Vip with a girl that won't answer you about what will happen in Vip because they are playing you! Find one that actually talks to you like a real person and doesn't appear to be stuck on them selves - my biggest pet peeve is the girl who does the dance and looks in the mirror at herself the whole entire time and never looks at her customer. Stay away from those kind because they're not interested in you at all all they want is to take your money and run. You want a good time then you need to have some sense on what girls to stay away from - and do not trust the manager to pick the right girl for you because they will send you the girl that is good at manipulating you into getting all your money and Vip and doesn't do anything - I was always the better choice in clubs but there were girls that could rip men off better than me and I wasn't in the business of ripping someone off so they pick the girls that could take all the money they could and would tip the bouncers out the biggest and they would use those girls as their go to girls - those are not the girls you want!!! Trust me!! Find your own by watching their interactions and asking around - don't be afraid to ask a customer when they get out of Vip if it was worth it or not because they will tell you the truth more than the bouncers or the management will . Ask the other girls too- they may hate but the girl everyone hates is probably the one you want!!! Because she's hated because she's real !