How to play

In the years that I have been perusing strip clubs, I have tried many strategies in getting the phone number for an out of club date. I had a few rules, the first and most important was that I do not pay for anything that was illegal. The other rule was that the dancer had to be an 8 or better in my judgement. I wanted to share a few strategies and talk about what has and has not worked

#1 Rich Guy

I would go in dressed up and act like I own the room. I would talk very little and pay for everything the girl of choice wanted. I would then skip the lap dance and go straight to the VIP room for an hour dance. Result: very friendly dancer in the club and if I got the phone number one of two things happened: she either wanted a sugar daddy or wanted me to pay to play. I did get a few dates but it pretty much went back to a desire for me to be a sugar daddy.

#2 Nice guy

I would go in dresses business casual and would be the most agreeable person in the room. The girls would pounce and I felt like they were after every dollar they could get out of me at the club. I got a phone number one time this way and she stood me up.

#3 I don't care

I would go in dressed as slow as dress code would allow but never sloppy or nasty. I would go in, get a beer and make it known to the dancer that I was interested but nothing more. As soon as she came over, I would talk, but never buy a drink or get more than a lap

Dance or 2. Then when she would get up to go to the bathroom or freshen up, I would make sure another girl was sitting in my lap before she got back. This has been the most successful strategy for me so far. The jealousy would bring them back, they would talk trash, and I would buy another dance. Then I would get up and leave but not before getting the phone number. I would get the date 30% of the time and it always worked out fine. The trick is getting away without an attachment but that is for another story.

Recommendation: go in, be yourself, be interested but not too much, and don't forget to close the deal before you leave.