Dancer, how do you deal with men

There are so many men these days who have a preference on what kind of girls they like. Some of these men can be rude and is not upfront telling you they don't want to get a dance from you. Some men like to bullshit and pretend they are showing some interest in you which makes you think you are going to get a dance from them. What do you do at this point? Time is money. We girls don't like to waste time.