IMPORTANT TIP 4 ALL DANCERS

The fact of the matter is, despite men being more direct and playing fewer games on average than females, men still play games! We All do.. whether we admit it or not.

So my tip is simple - alot of guys myself included will often reject an offer to dance just to see the reaction. A smart girl will continue the facade of not feeling slighted and wishing the rejector a pleasant evening and saying later with a smile. Or, the dancer can roll her eyes or Dart away quickly perhaps in some immature attempt to make the guy look dumb. Most guys that show up at rippers could care less what others think of them - so that doesn't work.

And it tells the guy that deep down your a pissed off school girl, when it takes the same time to be nice about the rejection, which is a much better way to guilt the guy into a dance later, albeit perhaps later in the night, than to snub up your nose and ruin any chance of getting him into the backroom at all. If the guy doesn't like your personality he won't feel bad about rejecting you - granted if your a 9 he probably won't let you out of his sight to begin with - so I understand the frustration. My point being that I reject girls I'm intrigued by all the time as a test. That's when you might see her true colors and you might not like what you see. Try to act genuine and take the rejection in stride - because believe or not men do play games. It's that simple. The guy isn't going anywhere and will likely be back another day - if you want to choose to lose any opportunity for dances by rolling your eyes or even worse demeaning him. . Then you better check your business plan.

Men change their minds just like females. Why Go out of your way to burn bridges?

PS I never like it when a girl starts touching my cock over my clothes before I even know her name.. and I'll have to do some research on why its always black girls that do this lol... But that's more subjective to me I'm sure many guys like that sort of thing..I doubt any guy would disagree with my main rant however. Use your brains gals!!