Quiet Type or in Control?

When I'm dancing in a club I like to pretend I'm someone else. In my actual life I'm a total dork. I'm popular because I'm such a cool dork, but never the less still a dork. But when I dance I'm turned all the way up. I'm pretty and have a great body with a nice butt and breast that are soft and the attention that I get is so exhilarating it just makes me want to show out lol. But I notice some guys won't come up and tip on the stage or approach me at all for that matter. But if I am to go to them then they the conversation starts and goes from there. I'm wondering why? Maybe intimidation? Maybe just shy?

What are you? Are you the type to take control when you walk in a strip club? Or do you like to wait for a girl to take things over for you? Do you like quiet girls or girls that can take control?