Music is key...

The music dancers choose to dance to is what's going to keep customers coming back, and it's a huge factor on the regulars that come in just for a specific girl. If customers like the music you chose and they like the way you move to their favorite songs they are going to get a dance for a little more one on one time and to get a little feeling in. Imagine being on someone's mind as soon as he turns on the radio driving in his car. If you are able to do that without even being around someone then of course they are going to come back to see you. Remember, music is the gateway to everyone's happiness. You want to be able to keep your customers happy, keep them coming back, and when they are there they don't want to have to think about real life, work, or anything personal. They come to see you to forget about all those things. So keep your music upbeat, happy, and always keep your customers smiling. Don't dance like a stripper. As my wonderful boss always says “You are a charmer, NOT a stripper.” Dance like a charmer, be seductive, be sexy, make them keep their eyes on you, and make them want you. The main thing about being a charmer/exotic dancer is the music you move your body to. Always keep that in mind, and ALWAYS pick music that suits your audience, don't think about yourself. You are a charmer and you want to keep your customers happy and coming back for more.