A cautionary tale

The quest for OTC action is alluring as the smell of a dancers perfume. However the idea that a dancer will be discrete is as flawed as the notion that you can drink light beer and not be drunk. Neither idea will prove to be true. Dancers are in business to sell the illusion of sex, or sex itself, for money to make ends meet. And if they are disparate then look out. My experience is a cautionary tale. I met a hottie at a club, and fell hard. She seemed to make that connection right back. So we kept our liaisons secret from the other"s significant partner. But she couldn't resist the money from other "friends" and eventually brought one in on a "date" we had, not at the beginning but later, afterwards at the bar. So for me, that was enough so I offered we just didn't see eye-to-eye on things. Thats when she asked for hiss money. Now...I wasn't dumb enough to use my real name or five real details, and she actually tried to extort money using written communication....but the threat was real enough. And so was the counter-threat of a felony action for her. But, and clubs should hear this clearly too, if you take up with crazy, the expect to live with crazy. No dancer falls in love with any one but the $100 bill, and patrons should never fall for a dancer. Let that be the fate of club managers and cops. Be smart and use them for how they use you. Maybe there"s a diamond in the rough, but is the risk of falling dome the mine shaft worth it? Only you can gauge it, but believe me the discovery will cost you plenty.