inter-action...

after visiting many clubs across the great 48 i have come to the conclusion that if you want it... well, there is a way to get it. i've heard stories and witnessed many things in the strip club scene over the years. i've noticed everything from total bitches who ignore anyone they don't know or they are so stuck on themselves to the point of annoyance. in my travels i've found most dancers are pretty nice and open about just talking and hanging out for a few. every now and then you'll run into the total bitches who will force themselves on you and demand or start with the sales pitch for cash... my personal experience has been to mind my own business. if there is any chance, they will come to you. i kind of like not being bothered anyway if i'm enjoying myself having a few beers while watching the action in and around the club. every now and again it will happen without you taking much effort. i find if i'm just sitting with a friend and hanging out they will eventually come to you. of course money is the object of importance so if you're too cheap to be there you'll not be very successful in landing a up close and personal 'inter-action'. i don't throw money around. i don't go out of my way... don't get me wrong i'm not a cheap ass who walks in and refuses to spend a dime but it takes some foreplay as it were to get me to start spending. i've been pretty lucky on many occasions as i have been lucky enough to get to that inter-action place so if you are seeking it, it will evade you... but if you are just hitting the club for a nice evening well i can tell you it will happen. be patient and you'll see i'm right. dressing nice is mandatory don't show up looking like a bum. the girls notice a guy more if he's got some style and is dressed with a bit of class. don't show up like you just got off work... a bit of advice. ;)