Love in the strpper world

I have been going to stripclubs for about 12 years so I have experienced a lot of things in a stripclub. Lately I have found myself wondering about the love life of strippers. Over the years I have become a bit over enfatuated with a couple of dancers which had gotten to the point of wanting to form a serious relationship with them. I found these experiences to be a bit painful since the feelings were not mutual. Lately I have been asking dancers about their dating lives. Some prefer to avoid the topic, others say they're happily married, others are single moms and prefer to focus on raising their kids. There are of course others who will admit to having just fun with friends. One dancer told me once that she had a griend but he was getting too attached so she wasnt sure if she should mess around with him since she wasnt looking for anything serious. One thing that they all seemed to agree on was that they dont believe they will find love at a stripclub. So the question remains, are strippers so jaded that they're unable to fall in love