Sacred Sensuality

8/20/2010 10:22:11 AM

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By: Lady Danu
Once upon a time, way before the concept of Religion was introduced to this planet, honoring of sexual energy as life force was an integral aspect of humanness. North, South, East and West in all corners of the world , the peoples of this vast place called Earth celebrated the body and primarily the genitals as a vehicle that transported them along the road to enlightenment. Ceremony, celebration and awareness surrounding the Sacred Union of Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine, was reverently and regularly practiced within the philosophies of world wide indigenous spiritualities. This collection of philosophies and practices are identified in Western Culture as "Sacred Sensuality."
Over the course of centuries, humankind has taken the sacredness from the sensual and placed around our sexual energy a dark cloud laced with repression and shame. The Sacred Union has been demoted to a "sex act" which one confines to an activity between the navel and the knees. The open and free celebration of Spirit and Nature bearing fruits of the on going love affair between Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine has been restructured into a collection of patriarchal dogmas which render the feminine subordinate to male deities.
Without Spirit, "the sex act," even when practiced with loving intent, may lose its allure and become tedious, routine and frustrating. When we learn to expand beyond our physical boundaries into an unlimited Sacred Sensual Encounter, we truly learn to commune with the Divine.
The concept of Sacred Sensuality, as it is practiced in the Western world today, recalls and revitalizes this honoring of sexual energy as life force and the orgasmic flow of sexual energy as the proverbial "Fountain of Youth." Those who seek to reconcile sexual self with spiritual self enjoy a new found wholeness and awareness that is difficult to put into words.
There are a great many resources available to those who wish to recapture sexual essence in a sacred way by learning more about the practices and philosophies of those indigenous spiritualities and embracing the age old concept of Sacred Sensuality in a new way. Wicca is but one of the spiritualities that recognizes sexual energy as life force. Others such as Tantra, are also rich with sexual ceremony and worship practices.
But what is true sensuality? Sensuality means being completely at home in ones body, trusting and living through the senses. Tasting-savoring the flavors that life offers through touching, exploring, the body, the tongue, feelings. Seeing, recognizing the beauty in all that is beautiful animals, flowers, trees, people, symmetry and asymmetry. Inhaling the fragrances of all and enjoying each. Listening to the voices of all living things and reveling in the uniqueness of each. Sensuality may be enthusiastic even athletic, but it is always in unison with another. 
Patriarchy has perverted sex. It shattered the consciousness of the Divine Sensual, separating it into controllable, cold, remote virginity, which led to possession; and crude sexuality, the perversion of sensuality. Sex as just a physical act can be uncaring even violent or brutal; twisted into the conquering and subjugation of another; the denial of the Divinity of another. When the sex act is finished, there remains only emptiness, an awareness of isolation and loneliness to be escaped through departure or sleep. The veneration of perpetual virginity and the disdain for the sexuality of woman is a denial of life and of life enhancing values. They represent the enslavement and the murder of the Goddess. A virgin brings no new life into the world and a prostitute destroys the divine in herself. Sexuality focuses the attention on control and destruction. The foundation of the sexual experience is the self; the foundation of the sensual experience is the other.
Making love is not sexual; it is sensual. It is being swept away by the immersion of ones senses in another person and more. Making love is experiencing the worship of the Goddess or God hood of another. It is adoration, in the original meaning of the word, of the Goddess, of the perfect Divinity of another through the senses. It is tender, gentle, awed reverence; a passion approached through complete vulnerability and surrender to the Divine Other and her/his surrender to the Divine Self. Implicit in surrender is complete trust and respect. Trust that this vulnerability will not be abused and that the gentle, reverent worship will be returned; and the respect of independence. Surrender is not conquest or possession. There can be no enslavement or ownership of a Goddess or God; the divine can not be controlled by anyone. Love is the most precious sacrament of adoration; it restores the sacred to what has been profaned.
There is no sensuality if each does not experience the overwhelming passion of total surrender, a voluntary experience of worship and the relinquishment of the center of ones own ego; the placing of the fate of the self completely in the hands of another. It is a selfless experience of unity; two become one and then two.
Surrender is rebirth. A mortal experience of reincarnation, it is the "little death" of the self in total trust that strengthens all aspects of life. It is an affirmation of life. In the surrender is the return to the self, yet it is also a return to the more perfect awareness of the sanctity, the beauty, the whole being of another. The desire to adore the other remains, sensuality lingers to fill up the heart, embracing each other even in dreams. The absolute revelation of each others scent, taste, touch, sound and sight is the perfected worship of the Divine life that lies within each of us.
Sensual awareness does not confine itself to one person, or to people in general. One may share the totality of surrender only with other people, yet the sensual awareness of all is also worship. We can experience the softness of a cat's fur, the rough aliveness of a tree, the taste of the salty ocean, the panorama of a sunrise, all with the sensual reverence inherent in Divine awareness. A Sensual individual is aware of all people, irrespective of gender, as being the Divine Other. It is not a sacrilege to desire the sharing of love with than one partner, many partners, or with more than one gender. A truly sensual person understands her/his own nature first and respects the choices of all others, whether they be bisexual, heterosexual, or homosexual. Sensuality, by its nature, can never force itself, for then ceases to be worship and becomes a perversion of sensuality.
Sensual intimacy can enhance a friendship, if both or all communicate, understand and accept the same definition of intimate friendship. An intimate friendship is based in freedom; there is no jealousy, possessiveness, or exclusiveness as in monogamy. Friends may derive much comfort and a deeper understanding of one another and themselves from the sharing of love. Yet if both do not communicate and understand the boundaries and meaning of the sharing of intimacy, then it is wise to limit the sensual awareness of the Other to an acknowledgment only, for this can destroy a friendship if the expectations are not clear.
Sensuality teaches us not to fight our senses and encourages us to learn to consciously sense and interpret the pheromones produced by others and use this knowledge to determine an appropriate response.   A sensual person learns to recognize pheromones, the natural scent produced by all people, if only subconsciously. Fear, desire, anger and disgust, among others, all have a particular scent.
The subconscious response to positive pheromones is usually expressed as "chemistry". Individuals of the same pheromones type will experience a physical response to one another; individuals of different types usually will not. When the "chemistry" does not match, a sensually aware person will feel a vague discomfort if attempts are made to further the intimacy. Individuals with no sensual awareness often focus only on the physical attribute of another rather than searching for the elusive "chemistry" and often find encounters empty of the elusive deeper connection. The body, the physical response to another, determines when complete sensual ecstasy is possible and pheromones play a large part in this. To attempt to force the self to feel an attraction for another or to have sex with another where there is no attraction is a denial of sensuality. We must not attempt to fight the body, to force what is not there.
Sensuality heightens the awareness of life, relaxing the inhibitions perpetrated on the innocent by patriarchal society. A sensual person reveres the integrated Divinity of Others, even those to whom she feels no physical attraction.
This is the ultimate lesson of the archetype of Aphrodite; to trust the senses and when drawn to another to experience the worship of the Divine.

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Player11

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14 years ago

I would suggest you research the Goddess Religion as your ideas seem to be a reflection of that.  I agree with a lot of what you say and IMO Strip Clubs are not that far removed to what would be Temples of the Goddess Religion.  Consequently, strippers are like the Temple Women and the patrons worshipers. 
 
Somewhere our culture took a wrong turn and the result is a lot of the zany religious strife we have in this world.

TessaMia

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14 years ago

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14 years ago

<h1>La Vecchia Religione</h1>
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The origins In the beginning of human kind, from East to West, a nameless religion was born and spontaneously developed. 
 
For thousand of years this primordial cult of nature remained the primary way of religiousness practiced by the people in every corner of the Earth. 
 
So, the Old Religion can be considered as the primal form of religiousness spontaneously generated in this planet, who consecrated an Alliance between Gods and Human beings. 
 
Therefore, the Old Religion represents the mother of all polytheistic religions who were born afterwards. 
 
This religion, which through the ages suffered innumerable changes and which was a religion without a name, proceeded the advent of Christianity in Europe by thousands of years and was known simply as The Old Religion, regarding its primeval origins, now and then. 
 
During the years, The Old Religion came to be known popularly as Witchcraft, as a result of the misinformation from the Catholic church. 
 
The term witchcraft began to be used by Catholic Church only after the year 1.000 to define, in a devious way, the cult of Ancient Primordial Gods. 
 
Persecuted systematically and meticulously with an unimaginable violence, after year 1.700 in Europe, the Old Religion seemed to be completely destroyed. 
 
But it wasn't so... 
 
The Old Religion is indeed a religion because it recognizes, beyond the material plane, a spiritual reality which is populated by potencies who are above human beings, recognized as deities. We can establish contact with these deities and develop a reciprocal bond with them. In doing so, we can largely benefit from it. 
 
Our religion, is not just a religion but a way of living and thought as well, with the objective of increasing our personal welfare and the development of our natural inner potential. 
 
Our conception of Divine is Polytheist, and our esoteric practices come from the Shamanism. 
 
The Shamanism is not a religion but a corpus of Arts that permits the Shaman to enter into contact with a very different reality that is not known to the majority of people. 
 
It's in this non-ordinary reality, that it is possible to enter in communion with forces that we recognize as Divinities and to build up a series of new experiences that can give us what we need. 
 
The Old Religion teaches us to respect other people’s beliefs and tell us to use of the dialogue as an instrument to get over any misunderstanding and, in this way, we could live together in peace and harmony with other people who think differently from us. 
 
We don't want to convince or discredit anyone, we only want to be respected and let in peace to live and express in freedom what we believe.

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