BlondeRX

Lol you got frazzled 😅

Good review. Ignore extras seekers like you do in the club.

@Papi, I would argue that it would be inappropriate for a waitress to let a dancer know someone wants to give her business even if the dancer is sitting with a customer. First of all, a waitress could come tell the dancer that someone is wanting to spend on her in a discreet manner (the dancer is not obliged to explain to the customer why the waitress stopped by for a minute). This can be done graciously in a way that would not make the customer upset etc. Second, if a dancer is sitting with a customer, whether that customer is a regular or not, that doesn’t mean that she is going to be making money off that customer. If this is the first time she is taking to this customer, it could be that she is sitting with him in the hopes of making some money off him or she is sitting to observe the environment to find other prospects, or she is engaged in an interesting conversation or just taking a break etc. She could be having a slow night and a waitress bringing her business could give the dancer encouragement that the night will go better. A regular, if he is a big spender, is typically an intelligent, sensible person and he won’t be offended if he learns that another customer wants to give “his girl” some business. The dancer can always decline the offer if spending time with the regular is more valuable to her. I suggest that being proactive will yield better results.

@Johnsayer, I would argue that Not stuffing a new dancer who explicitly said she doesn’t do extras will bring a different result. Just because a woman removes clothes for money, doesn’t me she provides other extracurricular services. You don’t walk into the bank and expect the teller to deposit your check and then open the bank’s safe for an extra fee, even if very generous, do you.

Exactly as Tetradon said, if you are looking for extras and the girl says she doesn’t do them or she is “giving excuses” and you absolutely need extras, it’s better if you move on from the girl who is saying no. She is not your type, and you are not hers.