discussion comment
4 months ago
Behind the paywall.
discussion comment
4 months ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
A data point, only 44% of American households can pay an unplanned $1,000 expense without going into debt. The key takeaway then is first save up $1,000 and hold that for any unplanned expenses. If you ever dip into the $1,000 unplanned expense fund, stop everything else and build up the unplanned expense fund.
discussion comment
5 months ago
Khakis, a dress shirt, dress shoes for work when I'm in the office. Dress shirt and whatever when I'm WFH. When I'm just out, not looking - khakis or jeans and a polo shirt. When I'm clubbing black jeans or dark khakis button front shirt, commando and dark hiking shoes.
review comment
5 months ago
I truly dislike the Louisville "buy the dancer a drink" routine.
discussion comment
5 months ago
SC, except for Myrtle is not much for strip clubs. They exist, but it's mostly air dances and I can't imagine the girls make much. Myrtle is different. During golf season and bike week, the place is packed. The clubs in Atlantic Beach (a part of the greater Myrtle Beach area) are mostly African-American girls and the town is notoriously lax with the clubs. The clubs elsewhere in Myrtle are a little more regulated, but still busy and a lot goes on there. YMMV.
NC is two worlds. Charlotte and Ralegh are very different from the rest of the state. My mongering in Charlotte has been sporatic at best, so I won't comment on what that city is like. Raleigh is a regular tour stop. According to a couple of ATFs in the area, good money can be made by hard workers. Lazy girls don't do all that well, but they don't do well anywhere. As to the clubs in area, all have their ups and downs. Right now, Rick's seems a little down. Capital Cabaret seems to be taking seriously the new compatition that will open soon on the other side of the airport. The competition will have better street acces and of course newer facilities. My most recent ATF from Raleigh liked doing OTC with me because I paid everything to her. She thought the club's take in house fees and the split was too large for her taste. Again, YMMV on that issue. I did spend a good amount of time and $ ITC before she and I went OTC.
HTH
LV
discussion comment
5 months ago
Beauty for sale is for sale to the highest qualified bidder at any given time. That's the rule of the desert. Live with it or don't go to the sex for sale market. (Trust me though, the sex you pay for is the least expensive you'll ever get.)
discussion comment
5 months ago
No fully nude in Indy. Brad's Brass Flamingo is a good choice for good dances in the various VIP options. Still no full on nudity. OTC is on some girls' menus. Not on others. If you are just stoping through, Sauget in Illinois across the river from St. Louis is more likely for nude. Akron is pretty good for nude. But, as mentioned, dive bars mostly.
discussion comment
6 months ago
Definitely agree. A couple of months ago, I went to a hotel bar that was dark. At first, I was like "what a time warp!" Then I realized that I was in fact in a time warp. All the bars, not just hotel, but every other kind of bar. More lighting and no smoking. The latter is a good thing. The former, is probably a good thing, but I do miss taking a girl to a dark bar and having a flirty time. :-)
review comment
6 months ago
Negative reviews are worthwhile.
article comment
6 months ago
I've gone covered most of my sex life, except for one wife and a couple of early girlfriends. Only got one STD and two kids. Both from the wife. She had some 'splainin' to do after that one. The marriage didn't last much longer.
discussion comment
9 months ago
I'll second Teasers in Durham. Laid back club. Good two way contact upstairs. Downstairs is pretty much air dancing only.
article comment
a year ago
Condoms are a definite requirement for me. With them, I'll go most anywhere. Without, only with a spouse.
discussion comment
a year ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Good on them!
discussion comment
a year ago
Brad's Brass Flamingo in Indianapolis has a smoking porch on the back of the club. It's got a tent like cover on it, and a six foot stockade around it. They have heaters installed. On all but the coldest days, it's pretty fun even for those of us who do not smoke. The light is better than in the club. The music is much lower. While no overt sexual activity goes on, I've had some great make out sessions on that porch. The drawback for the girls is, there's no real good way to sell dances out there other than table dances. If Brad's put some booths in, I think it would be a big money maker. I can see something like that working pretty well in Florida in the winter.
- Nice club near RDU airport
Mileage on the lowerlevel is very low. Not quite air dances, but almost. Upstairs, the rooms start at $150 for 15 minutes and go up from there. Mileage is somewhat dancer dependent. I got a $150 dance from a Czech girl with lovely naturals. She started off by putting her tits right in my face and soon she was engaged in some fairly heavy over the pants petting. I tipped her well. After the dance, she stayed with me for a drink and implied that more was available if I paid for a half hour. I didn't partake as another girl had caught my eye.
As far as the main review being a club ad, that is possible. He/she has only one review. I have posted both positive and negative reviews of this club. The main takeawy is, day shift, right now is very lame. Nights, especially on the weekends are better.
article comment
2 years ago
I have been to Brad's Brass Flamingo in Indianpolis a few times this year, and planning a couple of more stops there before the end of the year. Brad's talent hasn't changed much over the years. Mostly 5s - 8s. A rare 9. Mostly white but a few AAs. Prices have gone up, but I still think this club is affordable by the well paid midwesterner. No extras ITC. Only a few girls are avaialable OTC. That hasn't changed much over the years. Some changing of the furniture, but the basic club layout hasn't changed much over time. They did end smoking indoors. There is an outdoor smooking porch.
review comment
2 years ago
Desertscrub is a one note adjudicator. I agree, the description is accurate.
discussion comment
2 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
Never get your honey where you get your money.
discussion comment
2 years ago
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CJKent_bandThe truth hurts, but if you accept it, it will set you free
There is a cultural divide between the working and the non-working. Those who work, can and generally do improve their lot in life. Those who do not, or cannot work usually become wards of the state, generally for the worst. For the sake of those who cannot work, there needs to be a safety net. For the others, they need to get a clue and find a job.
article comment
2 years ago
@Veezua1 - questions. Not interrogation like questions, but "what happened next?" Or, "that sounds tough, can you tell me more?" Which are variatiosn on the same question.
There's nothing wrong with some empathy. We are dealing with humans. Often broken humans. Anytime we can find common ground, that helps. One time I was chatting with a black girl and she admitted she just had a kid and the baby daddy was no where in the picture. I just let her ramble on, nodding and making affirming noises. Pretty soon, I had my hand on her thigh, she didn't move it away. Pretty soon, I was moving my hand closer and closer to her V when she said, kids suck, because he (the kid) had ruined her fun zone. We laughed a little and I said her fun zone looked pretty good to me. That ended up in me getting a great VIP with her.
discussion comment
2 years ago
Twice I have run into a stripper unplanned outside the club.
First time, at a shopping mall. I was solo and so was she. I was going into Macy's and she was leaving. I briefly made eye contact. She did the same but, I saw she was with a guy, so I walked on. She did the same. We talked about it later at the club and had a good laugh. The guy was her off and on boyfriend. On at the moment we saw each other in the mall. She was appreciative that I didn't say anything. I got a great VIP from her too.
Second time, I saw a stripper, we were both with our spouses. Traci (the stripper) and I were in the middle of a continuing affair, but we had not planned on meeting. It was a random thing at a movie theater. We both played it cool and I don't think either of our spouses was any the wiser. At any rate, we didn't cool the affair. For that matter we are still continuing affair even though she is divorced and remarried, unhappily. I am divorced, happily. We have since discussed what we would say if a chance encounter with spouses/significant others/kids happens again. We don't know each other, we don't speak, we don't even acknowledge each other. Text later.
discussion comment
2 years ago
This is definitely a widespread policy. In truth, most clubs claim that all the dancers are independent contractors. Thus they are not really subject to such rules. But, consistency has never been a hallmark of strip club management. In truth, girls get "fired" all the time for various reasons, some good, some bad. The best justification I have ever heard from a SC manager was the rule is to prevent the clubs from being used for prostitution.
My own experience with a couple of clubs and OTC situations was we had to be fairly discreet about meetings. For example, one dancer told me to meet her at a regular bar down the street for the beginning of our OTC. Another said, "lets meet at...." Others were more discreet, we just exchanged digits and made the dates later. One time recently, I was texting a dancer in her club and we decided to meet up after her shift.
article comment
3 years ago
My experience with the Evansville clubs is mediocre at best, and their best days are few.