discussion comment
4 years ago
"I always am sure they know what it is and isnt, as I'm not looking for a serious anything currently and they all know this prior to meeting and even get reminded of it at times if I feel things are shifting on their end."
Makes the decision easy. Be upfront and ready to cut him off. Tell him yall talked about this, what the arrangement was and wasn't. Make the decision is he paying enough to put up with the stress otherwise cut him loose sooner than later for both of your sakes.
NAAAASTY
discussion comment
4 years ago
"This is one reason I prefer being with married men, they usually arent looking for anything beyond what they set out to find. "
So how are you screening them?? Are you wanting it to be strictly physical?? What services are you comfortable with and what boundaries are you setting at the onset?? When you don't know where the guy wants to go, don't be surprised when you get there. Be upfront and clear from the get go to avoid the headaches that follow.
NAAAASTY
discussion comment
4 years ago
Who cares why someone uses it. I've used it and cams, much less cash than strippers but has its place. Get enough guys together and one group will say why one group or supporter is better than the other. Guys who do SB, escorts, etc vs strippers, GF/SOs, etc, all think their preferred way is the best.
Do it or dont. Then move on.
NAAAASTY
discussion comment
4 years ago
Never heard of buying back your drink that you already bought and tipping to do it sounds like paying to let someone fuck you in the ass and tell them you enjoy it.
I get they want ways to make money, but charge for ice, cups, or even fee for each item (12 pack/bottle etc) you bring in.
So you bring a 12pk and leave after 2 drinks bc talent is lacking, they'll charge you $20 to get your 10 left? Something sounds off.
NAAAASTY
discussion comment
4 years ago
"But if we're talking hypotheticals, there's a fuck ton of hot girls working jobs in restaurants, grocery stores, and other retail. Some of them you'd recognize from the clubs..."
Would you ask them for anything approaching SC level activities??
NAAAASTY
discussion comment
4 years ago
I enjoy the buildup of a good tease that starts with locking eyes with a pretty face in close proximity enough to touch.
NAAAASTY
discussion comment
4 years ago
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EveWhere there's a hole, there's a way. [HIATUS]
Grew up with cats. Currently have a dog and thinking of adding a feline. Both are great, reliable, and/or entertaining.
NAAAASTY
discussion comment
4 years ago
Don't ask, don't think about it. Fun personality, great attitude, friendliness etc matters more. Generally, some of the early 20s or younger may have some but mid to late 20s have more that match my tastes.
NAAAASTY
discussion comment
4 years ago
Tipping more and going more frequently than pre-covid. Most going to my dancers vs staff.
NAAAASTY
discussion comment
4 years ago
If she's good, I keep getting dances. If she's a fave or potential fave, I'll tip. Never was a tipper nor thought about tipping though until a fave asked so sweetly.
NAAAASTY
discussion comment
4 years ago
Go for it. If this is real, and that's really you, the pretty face will do well.
Good luck
NAAAASTY
discussion comment
4 years ago
1. I find faves first, extras second.
2. 19. Enjoyed novelty and company of so many naked girls. At affordable prices for a broke college kid. Back then loved stage tipping, something I rarely do now.
3. Pretty much fly solo now.
7. Yes to close friends and some family
8. Yes
10. No
NAAAASTY
discussion comment
4 years ago
nicespice:
"Heck there’s been a couple of times a whole table of dude wanted me to meet them up outside the club for a whole gangbang."
nicespine right after:
"Sadly, this isn’t really something I run into anymore. "
Don't worry nice, the gents here at TUSCL can set up a gangbang for you anytime;)
NAAAASTY
discussion comment
4 years ago
I always please her first and let her cum a few times too. 1. Turns me on. 2. Once she's gone a few rounds, we can both focus on me.
Love the slow build, makes the payout that much more satisfying. Both for her and myself.
Nothing wrong with quickies, just not very satisfying.
Personally I'm about the foreplay, coreplay, moreplay until it's sore play ;)
NAAAASTY
discussion comment
4 years ago
800+ for dinner and few hours afterwards. Enough to have a great time with the girl I want, and if she flakes enough to have money well saved. My case a luxury experience more than a habit.
NAAAASTY
discussion comment
4 years ago
Go back next week. Tell her there's a few spots you think she missed. Something a softer more nipple-ier tool needed to get to. Can't risk 6 or even 3 mos, there may be a new one then. You'll be kicking yourself you let another good one get away ;)
NAAAASTY
discussion comment
4 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
Move on to the next one..
NAAAASTY
discussion comment
4 years ago
Tell her you're not into dealing with flakes (but phrased more tactfully, such as someone who can't keep commitments). See how she responds. If she talks about how she's going to make it up to you, she's still game. If she gives some excuse w/o a counter offer, you were just one of many options. If she ignores, she was never serious.
NAAAASTY
discussion comment
4 years ago
Same girl, multiple times seeing her asked for a tip after a few dances. So sweetly happily obliged. Another dancer same night after lame dancers tried asking and told no thanks. Depends on how she approaches it.
NAAAASTY
discussion comment
4 years ago
Not a ROB. Not the best service and a mood killer too.
Went to tip a fave on stage, pulled the wad of cash from stage tip pocket to give tip her when she told me to give her all of it. Took it as a faux pas or attempt at bad joke delivered poorly. I've had my share of those. One incident doesn't change everything prior, some guys' ego so fragile ready to move on from the tiniest slight.
NAAAASTY
discussion comment
4 years ago
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LiwetIf she walks away smiling, you spent too much.
LOL. You must feel the same way asking for free birthday lap
dances (w/valid ID) ;)
NAAAASTY
discussion comment
4 years ago
Never experienced this. Hella lame. If I wanted to tip her, i'd tip on stage. For clubs where it's not possible, I'd only tip those I'm interested in.
Otherwise no thanks didn't see your stage set.
NAAAASTY
discussion comment
4 years ago
Freezer doesn't always stay same temperature the entire time. It'll fluctuate a few degrees up and down, maybe more or less so depending on what part of the freezer. Impurities in the tray and the water and temperature of water when placed in tray affects freezing point and time.
The ice gets chilled from the top down, trapping any impurities and air bubbles as it freezes leading the cloudy look.
Easiest suggestion is leave in longer. You can also buy ice or ice machine. Expensive, but something called clinebell machine supposedly makes perfectly clear ice.
NAAAASTY
discussion comment
4 years ago
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BigPoppa99;)Florida-hooking up with Ms. EveHartley, since 2010!
Guys who like to call big spenders fat, are the same who call SC goers old. They're insecure. Typically successful folk work long hours and/or stressful, something that requires a degree of health to sustain.
NAAAASTY
discussion comment
4 years ago
Sending a drink is tacky. Can work if he's a time waster, but she'll leave him anyhow either way. Best bet is ask a waitress if she knows the story. He's a regular whale?? You're assed out. Move on.
NAAAASTY