Comments by gSteph (page 11)

69. Discovered lap dances 6.5 years ago. 39 years after 1st strip club visit. Wrote an article about my slow learning.

Nah, I keep my shirt on. But I'm a fan of mutual nipple play, and nipples meeting and rubbing on each other, so a few or all buttons undone makes me real happy 😊 when/if she's okay with it .

She's good looking enough. Easily fill out a roster at most clubs. She CAN sing. Lots of people can sing, it takes brains and ambition to turn singing into a billion dollar tour. I suspect if she chose stripping, she could turn 'good enough looking' into a profitable endeavor.

I'm a fan of arousal and tease. And fondle and hug. And wonderful scenery.

You never (rarely) know what someone else is carrying. Being nice is the way to go.

I've gone to making up the dancer names.

Oh, no, where's the other one ?

I've replied "they seem just about perfect for me " a time or two. Sometimes add a gentle kiss on one, pronounce it irresistible. Resulted in a more confident lass in my lap.

Good times, babydoc

^^ What he said. Getting a lap dance 💃 😍 now and then doesn't negatively affect the good times of my marriage. We do all vary, though.

Late model (2021) Martin 00-28 acoustic guitar 🎸 ♥ 🎶.

So, what's the question 🤔

1. Don't try to touch the pussy. 2. Or the bun hole. 3. Or the feet. Feet would be nice, but they're - ah, working, and you can't stop the dance to wash your hands before 4. Touching everywhere else.

Yeah, spellcheck.

Hell, I sometimes have performance anxiety with my wife of 40+ years. Take a Cialis, take some deep breaths, tell her you are having some anxiety, and that she is so beautiful/desirable. Often works for me.

👍👍 lol Now I can start my day ☺

Might if you're Santa Claus 🎅 🤪

the contrary view: Like the OP, I love lap dances, but I prefer them topless only, often say so in the initial conversation. I'm here for a fantasy, full nude sorta breaks that mood, makes it too real. I don't complain the few times she's taken it all off, it's a gently held view. Same on stage, I'm mostly focused on breasts and overall shape and beauty.

No, don't believe that either. By, Kev

That is so sad 😞 Dusty. So very sad. I'm going to leave the internet now and go cry.

So, you're leaving the strip club game? How's the knee? Never had an epiphany with a nipple in my mouth.

I'm fine with the hugging, titty squeezing, nipple play,and overall fondling you call 'clean', but long term I like the variety a club provides.

Jane Fonda. Good peanut butter on good bread, toasted.

Sounds like 1 dancer so can't be too picky

🙂🖐🤛🤩😊 Sounds like dreamland