Comments by Cristobal (page 12)

I have never hitchhiked, I had a car ever since I was 18, before that I always had reliable friends and family for transportation and when necessary I knew how to use the bus system. I grew up being taught hitchhiking was an invitation to getting kidnapped, raped, or killed. Not directly part of the topic but I feel it is rested, I also never picked up a hitchhiker.

The US-Mexico border is closed until at least September 21, 2029 as reported by the AP, which means HKTJ (and the other bars) are closed at least until that time. My money would be on January 1, 2021 as a possible opening date. . This is the fifth extension of the border closing with no real date on reopening yet. The border is closed to non-essential travel, so be prepared to prove your doctor and dentist appointments. Though the hotels are open (for now) and there are BGs and SGs working in the Zona Norte, the number available is drastically less (about 10%) than normal and the experience is not the party atmosphere mongers have enjoyed.

In my too many visits to TJ, this article is typical of most of the BGs who shared their stories with me. Though a few were working to buy a house, pay for college, or start a small business, the majority told me they were single moms taking care of their families by working in TJ bars. Most recounted stories of their mom ir grandmother watching her children while she earned money for the family a few weeks or a month at a time. Most BGs wold work about two weeks and return home for two weeks to a month. Another thing it costs them money to work in TJ, travel expenses, medical card, hotel, food, clothing, make up, hair, and nails. Once working at the club, some had a drink quota and the clubs can be very strict about being late, spending too much time in a customer's room, and missing days, levying fines or not allowing BGs to work the weekend shift.

When I first started first started visiting strip clubs and Mongering in 2017, I had a few deal brwakers and a few preferances but the more time I spent at strip clubs, bikini bars, bikini Coffee Shops and TJ brothels the less deal breakers I had and the more I would look for a reason to spend with a DS or BG. I do not mind piercungs and tatoos, I like all hair styles and colors, body typees, nationalities, and personalities. My only deal breaker was of I knew she has a significant other, it was not a subject I would broach but if she mentioned it or I saw evidence of it, I would bail and move on. I have no delussion that sexy, young women would not have a significant other, I just did not want to know about it. Fortunately for me, most of the DS and BG I wanted seem to know this information is best kept private. I can only remember a handful of girls who mentioned a signicant other or (accidentally) showing pictures of one. One BG who I really enjoyed my time with and was going to be a regular until I saw on her significant other on her WhatsApp posts and I dropped her. It was fun finding BGs to replace her

It just sounds like a PL who either regrets his experience(s) or is using the perceived negative experience to gain sympathy or favor from a bar girl. The writing style and ideas are different but this reminds me of a few TUSCLers who try to tell others how to and not to have fun.

If she did indeed "dump" you, keep in mind this was a business relationship and you should not have too much trouble finding new business partner once the Covid situation in the clubs return back to (relative) normal. To each their own on their experiences and relationship but when I mongered I realized favorites are not the Monger equivalent of girlfriends, she "may" consider me more than a customer but never a boyfriend. And I may have considered her more than dancer or BG but I never considered her a girlfriend and thus if I felt it was time to move on it was pretty easy to do so. It was a lot of fun to find new favorite(s).

This is German version of air dances and no VIP rooms in US Clubs. The Germans just finding new ways to separate PLs from their money and give them the least possible.

I am rooting for the Lakers to win it all beating the Celtics in the finals. The NBA's political message does not influence my stance on the subject, nor does it affect my desire to watch the games. Let the NBA playoffs begin. Go Lakers!

"I wouldn't recommend always getting "extras" because you never know how many other people they are doing this with." With all due respect, did you think your were the only person your dancer blew that night? Mongers learn not to think about the dancer's other customer that day or even hour and focus on their own fun. Once i experienced extras in the club, I had little reason to visit clubs for just dances. To each their own but visiting an extras club with getting extras seems like a waste of time to me.

The border to Mexico is officially losed to tourist and is only open for essential travel, the level of enforcement and requirements tmfor entry will vary. It is possible to cross the border into Mexico but you may have to verify your reason and length of stay. HK and the other bars are not open but the hotels still are and there are still sSGs and now HGs (hotel girls) working the lobbies where the prices seem to be the same as preCovid. The medical office gas been closed since April, thus nobody has a current medical card. The major changes in TJ will be the number of girls working is a fraction of normal (10-15%), so the quality and variety is lacking. And another major change is the process, which means there is no warm up and get to know the girl time, which for most TJ Mongers is pretty important. The ficha was the opportunity to find out if there was some chemistry and her time to tease and/or persuade you to take her arriba. Good luck and happy mongering 2020.

I have not considered marrying a dancer mostly because for me the strip club scene is not a dating environment. I do not go there to date and so I am not looking for wife at a club, for me the club is to just have fun. That being said, I have no issue dating and marrying an ex-stripper. I would not consider marrying a current stripper because for it to work I would need to give the relationship 100% effort and visiting strip clubs and brothels is not the way for me to give 100%. Also, if she is dancing it most likely means she is unable to be 100% faithful yo the relationship too. But if an ex dancer wants to date and she has the qualties I am looking for in a wife, I would definitely consider it.

There is certainly a market for spring football but even the NFL could not make it work (WLAF, NFL Europe, and NFL Europa). The idea of a minor football league might work if the prices were minor league and the quality of the game was above average. McMahon's business model of paying meager football wages to attract NFL roster cuts and fringe players was going resulted in subpar football, would require patience to grow the brand. Overall, he put too much into branding and not nearly enough into the product, hoping flashy comercials, plenty of social media, catchy nicknames (the LA Wildcats withstanding) and logos would overshadow mediocre football. And with bad football even all the gimmics and marketing were not going to save this league (the ratings were on a downward trend and attandance numbers were embarassing, except for St Louis). I suspect McMahon was glad COVID-19 shut down his league before he had to admit his mistake and shut down the league (just like the AAF). And that is one of the problems: how do you build a league with mediocre players playing below average football and try to make a profit short term and build the sport and brand long term. The MLS required more than 20 years to became stable and grow and become profitable, I doubt the Rock's investment group has that type of patience and viewpoint. I wish the Rock good luck but my bet is he threw away his money (he is a partner in the investment group, do the $15 million was not all his money).

Watched Episodes 3 & 4 and the story is developing very nicely with interesting characters, especially Uncle Clifford, an intricate plot, and good old fasioned strip club/stripper drama. There is plenty of eye candy (when Autumn nights shows up in a blonde wig is very memorable) but the show is not particularly sexual, even though it has a few decent scenes. Watch it for the plot and the character interaction but if you are expecting a low key skin flick you will disappointed.

I do not like clutter, so I delete contacts regularly, I try to avoid taking a number if I do not think I will stay in touch, though sum DS and BGs insist on you taking their number (which I delete a few days later). The most numbers I had was 10.

ESPN reports Yoenis Céspedes is opting out for the 2020 season.

"A study in 2019 confirmed that people ate having less sex. This is especially true among those age 18 to 30" Really, a study confirmed it? Did they interview the 265 million Americans that are confirmed to be having less sex? I did not get the questionaire, lol. Most likely there was a study done for 100 people and from that minute samoke size such a grand statement is cifirmed, SMH. There is no way to know how much sex people are having, as if it is quanitfy and recorded like some type of W-4, lol. And then to suggest sexual harassment laws have been a reason for the decline in sexual activity is pretty funny too. Overall, work is a place to work, where socialization occurs but sexual escapes rarely happen. Sexual harassment laws are there to protect the company from lawsuits from emoloyees who actually use their power to sexually harass coworker. If a couple had social chemistry there is usually now wrong with pursuing it, as long as it does not interfere with work, is it wise to pursue, I would not because I do not want the drama a relationship will bring in my work place. There are plenty of other places to meet women and pursue a normal relationship.

A big mistake PLs make is to give a romantic gift to someone whom they are not romantically involved with. An ATF is not a significant other and while the línes get easily blurred, keeping this in mind wll save PLs heartache and money. At most, I would tip a little more than the Pre Covid amount.

I never concern myself with other's people money, so I do not care or try to calculate how much a dancer or BGs earn, all I worry about is how much she wants for the services I want. When i first started mongering I wanted to find out the general market value of the services I was seeking, it took about a month or two to figure it out and that is all the stripper and BG economics that interested me.

If she was dancing at a club I would not buy dances or take her to the VIP room for extra fun. As an IG Model, she rates a 5, nice looking but average and her content is average (at best). As i have told several aspiring IG models, whatever your angle (fitness, bikini, party, lifestyle) own it and highlight your best asset.

While death is sad and cases like this are tragic, accidents and death are facts of life and fortunately there are ways to protect your family and not create burden for them (or TUSCL members). There are plenty of inexpensive life insurance policies, death benefits, and funeral policies available for all ages. For example, it is tragic when a firefighter passes away but how do you not have life insurance and a death benefit when you work in a dangerous profession and instead rely on a gofundme Page, carwash, or a fire en asking for donations on the street? Also, there are many inexpresive funeral services available. I had a coworker unexpectedly pass away a month ago and her family wanted an expressive funeral and burial and put up a gofundme request, I passed on the principle that if she did not have life insurance and they want an expensive funeral then they should pay for it.

@papi_chulo has a reputation for liking thick DS, this the rsst of your numbers (36-xx-xx) are needed for Papi's DS data base. Also in your videos fo you say "fuck me harder papi chulo" or "fuck me harder @papi_chulo"? Asking for a friend.

@jascoi I could only imagine how much the TJ mongering PLs miss TJ. I suppose you have to make the most of situation if you made the effort to visit TJ but there is nothing which compares to going through those heavy curtains and seeing the BGs dancing on the bars and stage, standing around shaking it to the music, walking around, and walking down the dressing room stairs.

@winex We have all stretched the truth for a friend, it's in the brocode

I subscribe to the notion of giving 100% to whatever situation I am in, when I was married my x wife was my one and only, when I divorced and tried dating those attempted relationship were my one and only, and when I decided to Monger those DS and BGs were my one of many.

@mongo1964 I agree that the vive at the club Changes through out the day and there are peak times to find BGs. To me that is half the fun, finding a BG at 4 or 5am, and for me the most difficult time was 7am, I would just go back to my room and return at 9am. I found plenty of fun BGs during the 8-11am shift, they usually hung out with you longer and offered arriba for less. One of my favorite regulars was a BG from the 8am shift.