Comments by bullzeye (page 10)

@sub. Was offering just about anything. Coffee, drinks, dinner, or live music. Hell, even brought up a weekend away. Zilch. FWIW, her idea was a 4/5 star eclectic romantic restaurant. Unprompted.

@papi. Yeah it seems I done f’ed up and got it reversed. Gonna work on that. @sub again good suggestions. I’ll put them into action. And if they don’t work, onto the next one!

@sub thanks fir the reply and suggestions

Ask for what? OTC? I have. First one doesn’t but will do extras in club. Second one, have made plans 3x and each time it fell thru ( last one was my fault). Third one, it’s been talked about a lot, but she keeps on shooting down all ideas although she brought it up originally with no mention of $$ at all. Matter of fact, was brought up in context of a date with the (obligatory) I-never-do-this caveat. So who the F knows.

I have to visit Phoenix. Really. Although skibum’s experience is different, at many of the clubs here in NE, you don’t get nearly the extent of extras at that price point. At one club I know, one dancer quotes $450/hh for VIP with no extras included. At another, fairly well known and reviewed club, I got quoted 4 figures for FS. I think I need to visit more clubs

Lol.... never noticed it before, but I can attest to the vacations and Netflix.

Same as most: Before and after - small talk During - sexy talking Will also add that I’ve had small talk in the VIP both before and after the dance time that helps develop a link between you and the dancer that definitely has paid off long term. Paid off in the sense got offered OTC and extended time after our time was officially over in the VIP

Damn..what the hell happened there...sorry mates

...for me, Desires in Providence. Might alternate between days and nights, though, depending on the day if the week.

@kingcripple So, what are you going to do from here? See where it goes, or leave it as an ITC type of thing? @PD Did anything happen after the therapy sessions? Did it lead to something else yet )or not)? @cowboy Same to you, after your cf confided in you, did it lead to something else? The reasons I ask, is I may have found myself in a similar spot and I’m trying to figure it out. It ain’t easy for sure. SS....just when you thought you’ve heard seen it all.....

....and it’s club and dancer-dependent. In a non-extra club I visit, one dancer avoids it at all costs. There are cameras everywhere and the managers/owners are known to watch what happens in the VIP room. Another dancer in the same club has been more willing to LFK but again worries, to a lesser extent, about the cameras. In another club I visit, dancers say there are cameras but it’s never seemed to stop them from doing ANYthing in the VIP. Many clubs say they have cameras; it some clubs it seems to have an impact; in others, not at all. You have to know the club and the girl. Good luck; it’s definitely fun when it happens...

....and it’s club and dancer-dependent. In a non-extra club I visit, one dancer avoids it at all costs. There are cameras everywhere and the managers/owners are known to watch what happens in the VIP room. Another dancer in the same club has been more willing to LFK but again worries, to a lesser extent, about the cameras. In another club I visit, dancers say there are cameras but it’s never seemed to stop them from doing ANYthing in the VIP. Many clubs say they have cameras; it some clubs it seems to have an impact; in others, not at all. You have to know the club and the girl. Good luck; it’s definitely fun when it happens...

....and it’s club and dancer-dependent. In a non-extra club I visit, one dancer avoids it at all costs. There are cameras everywhere and the managers/owners are known to watch what happens in the VIP room. Another dancer in the same club has been more willing to LFK but again worries, to a lesser extent, about the cameras. In another club I visit, dancers say there are cameras but it’s never seemed to stop them from doing ANYthing in the VIP. Many clubs say they have cameras; it some clubs it seems to have an impact; in others, not at all. You have to know the club and the girl. Good luck; it’s definitely fun when it happens...

....and it’s club and dancer-dependent. In a non-extra club I visit, one dancer avoids it at all costs. There are cameras everywhere and the managers/owners are known to watch what happens in the VIP room. Another dancer in the same club has been more willing to LFK but again worries, to a lesser extent, about the cameras. In another club I visit, dancers say there are cameras but it’s never seemed to stop them from doing ANYthing in the VIP. Many clubs say they have cameras; it some clubs it seems to have an impact; in others, not at all. You have to know the club and the girl. Good luck; it’s definitely fun when it happens...

Dude, stay out of this. This is the true definition of SS. If you were to try and help her, there’s a small chance you could. But there’s a greater chance that you wouldn’t...through no fault of your own. Whatever you try might not work, she may end up going back with the guy, something totally unexpected may happen, etc. And something bad might happen to you. If you want, check back in on her in a couple of weeks. This will probably have blown over... And don’t overlook the legal mess that can come of this situation...

Hope dad lives a long life so as to be around for the kid....

But how can you do that when you haven’t met me yet ??!? ;). Maybe one of these days when you’re lucky

I liked the separation of the boards but I think your mock-up will work. Also, I definitely appreciate both TUSCL and all the work you put into it founder

See, this is the stuff I wish would happen to me. Gotten close but not quite. FWB seems like a good deal...no strings. I say go for it. Now, this post makes me want to visit a club and search for my own FWB!

Shadowcat, I like the way you roll. I only hope I can have game like yours when I get there, let alone now. Props to you, you stud!

Did the two dancer routine once. Their suggestion. One experienced one was helping a friend who seemed to be new to the scene. It was fun but with all that skin I had a difficult time focusing. They did a good job. Could have been better...could have been worse. Am I rushing to do it again...no. Would I consider it again.....yes, with the right pair and expectations laid out in advance.

Agree with njb. That would definitely keep her in my CF list. Mine could take a lesson from his CF. Get a good amount of texts but the radio silence sometimes has me smh. That and the replies that totally skip over anything I put in my text. Sometimes I just wonder....

Man, the lesson seems to be don’t stay late at a club...smh

I’m kinda with Boaz on this. I liked the ability to quickly scan for a new review on a bunch of clubs in a certain area. That way, I could quickly find out if something changed at a club rather than having to go to each club page individually to look for a new review. Founder, here’s 1 vote for (re)instituting that display function.

See if the dancer works at another club that has the privacy you seek ...sometimes they do...heck, if you’re that interested in her, bring it up to her...might get more mileage there