Comments by future POTUS and Senator in training (page 67)

Also..why is it bad if she wants to.spend every moment with her boyfriend ? Because no healthy relationship ship involves constantly being around each other.

And while some ppl dont care about being successful , that is a problem in itself...it is problematic if u dont care about being successful.I feel like if you ask me to further explain this that is a problem. Also..why is it bad if she wants to.spend every moment with her boyfriend ? Because no healthy relationship ship involves constantly being around each other.

Actually , ur actions follow ur belief system. When I say its not ok..I am.not saying that its not ok to watch tv all day rite after class and only study nite before exam..but actually being content with this is mind boggling to me.how are u ok with not taking control of the day and letting it control u and therefore living life aimlessly . While this assumes that living life aimlessly is bad and while it also asusmes that hanging out with boyfriend can't be considered an aim..it assumes this because its true. If all you do is spend time with ur bf..you are sacrificing money as she only works part time. ..While she goes to class ..class is almost useless if the only thing u do is study nite before test and literally spend every other with boy friend...she is sacrificing her success.

Dc she spwnds 6 hrs a day like at the most..she works for 3 hrs a day like 4 days and one day like 5 or 6..she works part time. @DC when you're trying to obtain your degree which she is trying for....u don't obtain that by spending all your free moments with your boy friend..I mean I go to class for 6 hrs a day including travel time .if I did what she did that would be equivalent to me watching t.v. all the time except like the night before every test..umm I'm sorry that's not ok..

I basically have a mental issue lmao right now kind of depressed but I'm working thru it bc I want to get better..u have to wanf to get better before anyone can treat you. And I guess that's why mental illness sux bc the stronger it is..the harder ig is for you to want to become better

And after thinking about it, so she has adhd...and ive experienced anxiety myself just because I kept focusing too much on my past mistakes and berating myself for acting dumb in past which just now I am.letting go of.. So while I didnt hangout with ppl when I was anxious , I would just sit in my room and think about the past which I (mistakenly ) as I thought I had no future at one point no matter how hard I would try ... . While she might be hanging out with him as a coping mechanism for her adhd, I feel like how we dealt with things speaks volumes about out personalities ... When I felt like my hard work at the moment would not amount to anything which prevented me from even trying , at least I wasnt content with not doing anything ,unlike her who just goes out all the time and seems to.actually be okay with not progressing in life and therefore letting life run her .

She mentioned significant adhd problems before she started hanging with him constantly and spending less time on school..I understand not being able to focus when you dont feel sane which is why I underperformed for a while despite naturally being able to score very high when I tried for the same assignments. However. I don't understand hanging out as a way to remedy that , especially if the hanging out isnt leading to improvement such as in her instance .

@ loser I understand that. Again, I am not criticizing ppl who are degree-less nor am I criticizing ppl who obtain a degree after 22. What I am saying can be applied to anyone..in the sense that..it doenst make sense to spend every free moment you have with your boyfriend.

Your ambition doesnt better you perosonally or professionally by putting it into practice and working towards it...cant do that when you spend every moment working part time or going to your boy friends house, now can you?

And for the serious posts such as this one that is spend longer than just 15 min on..it isnt unproductive bc I'm genuinely asking for advice trying to accomplish a goal with it So bye Felicia @icey I love how u respond to all my threads especially when I ask questions thx a lot <3 lmao

When she working for 6 hrs a day she spends allllll day at her boyfriends place. Stop calling this medicority as if the majority of people do this..only fucking bums do this . Yes there are ppl who cohabit when they are her age but just bc u cohabitat doesnt imply that you spend the majority of the time with each other. No one fucking hangs out with their boyfriend right after fucking work and hanga out with him whenever they arent working or sleeping .

Its inst mediocrity when you don't have your bachelors by 22(below mediocre ..I'm not criticizing ppl who have a degree later on life..I'm just saying how are u ok with spending hrs every day at your boyfriends place when you dont even have the minimum of what you yourself want yet...

I domt spend So Much time posting here ..that's the thing? One post a day takes only 10 minutes .ive spent max 15 min a day posting for the most recent months ..and I havent even posted every day Maybe ppl wonder why youre a boring loser ?

If your whole life consists of going to your boyfirends house or playing video games when you aren't at work then I'm sorry something is wrong with you. How can you be content with being that unproductive .thr only time I was ever that unproductive was because I was going through intense axniety..not bc I enjoyed It. And even if she is anxious I cant believe that instead of getting treated instead of just hanging out with friends after work when you are still working on a degree that you arent even close to finishing .

Ok u know what I mean lol..on top of that how do u shut out those closest to you I'm exchange for your boyfriend who just makes music and smokes cigarettes .

I meant co ed cheer squad rather than what I said in the title

Ok ya does anyone have problem with co ed cheer squad ?

Ok ya would it br problem for some of you if all cheer dquads became co-ed?

1) the ppl working minimum wage at least are not telling others they like it 2) I don't think enjoying stripping is something that should be criticized because of assumptions about females which ppl sadly do, but rather because of assumptions about human nature..I think stripping is different than working is a stripper. Stripping can be emjoyable but its hard to see how working is a stripper is enjoyable bevause you don't who you strip for..and therefore strip for men who can sometimes seen as ugly or creepy just for many.while some girls might not strip for creepy guys, the majority of customers women strip for are jot who they are attracted to 3) it's different when women grind on men in nightclubs bc theyre grinding who they are attracted to..not just any guy for money.I am not saying that this distinction justifies calling strippers sluts..im just saying maybe a different analogy would be better lol 4) while you may claim that you dojt need to be attracted to ur customer to enjoy stripping for him, that would be hard to believe ..usually the reason a person would day this is precisely because whatever negative condition they are in makes them enjoy it.however , if you actually do enjoy it, youre an exhibitionist..and the vast majority of dancers who do dance are not exhibitionists . 5) while it could be true that u Actually enjoy it..thats hard to believe..I enjoyed showing myself off too and did it online for a while but that was because I was not in a proper mental condition.even if you do like it and are an exhibitionist ..an exhibitionist itself is someone who gets off of attention.. 5) I don't think dancers should be criticized because the money helps them survive and I guess u gotta do what u gotta do..but if youre gonna criticize a stripper..I wouldnt do it because of gender but because of basic human nature (I feel that attention whore is a valid criticism )

So I told him in not gonna talk to him any more ** Like I'm not a toy with parts u can play which u can ask "so which part of you can I use as I much as I want" Get the fuck out . It does sound clinical but I dont care..cuz clinical can sound very respectful.I only stopped talking to him not bc he sounded clinical but bc he sounded objectifyijg

@icey I was mistaken about the meaning of "anything off limits?" With do u have any limits That distinction made me realize what he was truly asking...so I told him I'm.not gonna talk to anymore even tho he's handsome :((

And he asked me if anything was off limits**

..................lol haha

lol blonde bombshell gets made at icey for bullying but then she bullys me back no matter how Much she will deny this. I dont play with ppl heads either, whether or not that was directed at me

No guys he is not saying that I am not real..but rather that my sex drive isn't real:((