Comments by Titus23 (page 6)

Yes, I post on both sites, as they offer different perspectives that I find valuable. Also, Skin's description of events is less than complete. She was drunk, abandoned by the guy she was hanging out with, and called me for help. She was super depressed and expressed a willingness to wander off and let whatever happens happen. We talked for a bit, I got her talking about how she wanted to live for her daughter, and then I drove out to pick her up. I got to the house she was at, and the person that met me at the front door didn't recognize her dancer name. I know her real name now, but at the time did not. She was in the house at the time, a friend of her family's, but she was sound asleep and wouldn't wake up for about 18 hours or so. Having just spent a weekend with her, that's not far-fetched at all. This girl sleeps hard. She admits to having some issues, and there is no doubt about that. But, when she's sober, she's one of the sweetest, most genuine women I've ever met. I don't drink, and this past weekend, when I asked her to stay sober for an evening, she did so without a complaint. Like I said before, I'm not jumping in with two feet, but am cautiously optimistic.

@skin, yes, when I spent my birthday with her, I did spend quite a bit, combined with my first visit. Not much since then though. One of the most telling things for me was when I paid for her car to get fixed last weekend. And then she paid me back the full $400. As for the call I got, come to find out she was there, just sleeping off a lot of alcohol. I've witnessed firsthand that she should never have shots. Beer and mixed drinks are fine, but keep the shots away or she gets nuts. And once she's asleep, she's down for 12+ hours. I'm not thinking that I have some long, perfect relationship ahead of me. I'm just hopeful that while it lasts, I have a legit connection with a beautiful woman that enjoys my time as much as I enjoy hers.

@decline, she doesn't do any drugs as she has a daughter born a month before my son and is very dedicated to raising her right. She does drink quite a bit and can get rowdy, but I've learned some tricks for that. Regardless, it'll be a while before she ever comes down I'm sure, so we've got time to figure it out.

She was definitely having fun, though also pretty drunk. Maybe she's bi when she's drunk lol.

@Dougster, my wife is bisexual yes, but no, she doesn't watch porn. I know the dancer is bi as well. Got to witness that firsthand last weekend in an impromptu MFF.

I didn't start the conversation with my wife. She told me I needed to get out there and find someone that I can be physical with and have fun. She's a unique woman that has really helped me with her openness

It would be a shock if my wife ever decided to give it a go again sexually. It's been 4 years with no change already. If she does, I have no issues with an open relationship. As for the dancer, all I asked of her is that when I'm around, we hang out. When I'm not, she does whatever. I'm not trying to set up anything permanent or serious. Just friends having fun, which is what she told me she's looking for too.

She's 23, I'm 29. I think she said it best when she told me "I think I actually kinda like you." It was very spur of the moment and sweet. My wife wants me to invite her to spend some time at our house. She would get the spare room. It's an odd situation, but my wife really is ok with the whole deal.

Thanks. Definitely won't last too long. My job keeps me moving around often. Next move is expected in just over a year. So, enjoy while I can, right?

Very sure. So long as I'm open about what I do, and I don't feel guilty doing it, I can do whatever I want. She's a stay at home mom living very comfortably, driving a brand new car, doing whatever she wants all day. She's no longer capable of being intimate due to post-partum issues, and it makes her happy when I'm happy. So, she supports whatever I want to do, so long as I'm safe about it.

Jokes on her. I'm already married! Though, my wife has full knowledge and approves of my activities. Hell, for that matter, the dancer knows that too.

Last weekend when I was dancing with my ATF, I told her that I love the way she smiles when she doesn't want me to see it. She has this thing where we'll be talking and I'll make a joke or say something and she'll try to hide her smile and act cool. It's adorable. When I told her that, the most beautiful smile came across her as she blushed. It was such a beautiful, natural response. I love those.

Yah, sorry about that. Actually, I'm really not. I've spent some hard earned money on this woman and I'm damn sure going to do what I can to keep her around. If she asks to work the crowd, I won't stop her, but last time she came out of VIP, she found me enjoying an extended mini-lap with one of the 9s. She stared me down the entire time and immediately came back to me when I was freed up. Didn't even do that on purpose. No one was tipping the woman on stage, so I came up and dropped a few 5s. She climbed on, I commented about her goosebumps (cold night), and she spent the rest of the song getting warm.

Not saying its any less deadly. Just saying the big booms make me jump up and run for cover. The little booms make me look for distance and direction.

Crazyjoe, not too crazy. Once someone tries to kill you with a rocket, small arms fire loses the wow factor.

It was packed at close. I was the last guy out and a huge crowd was gathered in the parking lot. I remember some yelling coming from the main stage area when I was in the VIP with my ATF during last call. Don't know who, but they sounded pissed.

I was there. Missed it, but one of the dancers called me about it.

Ended up rolling with 5s in left front pants pocket, 20s in right front, 1s in back left, and wallet with night 2 money (including 100s in back right. Worked well. Made it so the only cash flash was the stack of 1s and 5s. Side note: 5s are received very well as stage tips.. very well. Also, update for day 2. Meeting up with the dancer from last night for dinner before she heads into work, going to help her quickly make all of her tip-outs, and then we're going to find a club to spend the night together. We'll see how this plays out.

Night 1 complete. $522 down, $788 to go. Thinking about restocking my $1s and $5s with another $100 tomorrow. Scored a phone number, and an alleged text date as she goes shopping with the $100 I gave her and picks an outfit to wear tomorrow. We'll see if that happens or not.

Definitely not looking for anything OTC. Most I'd hope for on a personal level is her number, so if she changes clubs she can let me know, or I can see if she's working whenever I come to town. Simply looking for a good time with a pretty lady (or several depending how the night goes), then going home.

Breakdown is $50 in 1s, $100 in 5s, $600 in 100s, $540 in 20s, and the last $10 I'm using for the tolls.

Just finished driving to town. Thanks for all the ideas (both serious and just entertaining). Sounds like spreading between pockets is the trick. SJG, I do have my eye on a dancer, though I live too far away to see her regularly. I like the money clip idea too. My wallet is leather and thick by itself. Takes up too much room. UC, thanks for the birthday wishes. I'll definitely be enjoying my presents.

Maybe I shouldve put it in discussion lol. Oh well. It's a long post either way

What's the average review time for articles? I submitted something last week because I didn't think it fit the mold of a discussion. I don't really care if I get premium or not, I just wanted to share something I wrote.

Temptations is non-alcoholic, but it is located next door to the Cigar Bar and you can go back and forth freely. It's totally nude (some dancers keep a g-string on), and full contact lap dances. No real VIP area though. Be prepared to bump legs with the PL next to you on busy nights.