Comments by Pizza (hiatus) (page 11)

Great thread. Thank you for all the information you post anislee. Any updates on your move to San Diego? "They don't work in the clubs because of the strict schedule and having to drink too much alcohol." I've read stories about the drinks being watered down for the girls. Do you think there is any truth to that? Also, when it comes to strict schedules is there something like a required number of days or required number of hours per shift the bar girls have to work?

Thank you all for your recommendations. Much appreciated. @ RandomMember I typically will ask the girl what her preferences are, and try to deliver that. Still working on the delivery, obviously. @ lopaw Good point. I can be an impatient person and will Tornado Tongue® the vagina. Any links or videos to highlight your point? @ Sueprstarslim and pensionking Thank you for the specific pointers. @ flagooner Just tried what you recommended. My lawyer will be talking to you soon.

Athletic-wear seems like a good option to me. Those synthetics fibers are typically pretty thin, and as a bonus they are also soft to the touch for the dancers as well. The Champion-brand stuff you can buy at Target are pretty affordable, and can be good strip club wear, in my opinion.

@ GACA Personal experience?

@ mark94 Interesting perspective. I do know some small to medium-size business owners who are definitely not happy with Obamacare or Dodd-Frank. I'm not going to pretend I understand those laws and regulations, but from what I have heard a lot of them blame voters for not understanding that "corporation" and "business" is not just CostCo and Walmart but mom-and-pop shops and small business owners struggling to break even. I am sympathetic to those people. @ san_jose_guy You are always bringing a different perspective to things. What would you consider a legitimate part of the US economy?

I think certain white people living in certain Eastern European nations would disagree with the OP's quote. If you're talking about specifically the United States, I think the advantages of being white are situational. Being a certain something brings with it it's own share of pros and cons. I also think it's a little simplistic to say it's better being white. It's kind of like saying it's better to be Japanese. I'm sure it is better to be Japanese... in Japan... where the country is 99% Japanese. If this nation does become majority of a non-White race then it may become advantageous to be that race at that time. People are people first before they are a member of a race. Also, I think once the Boomers pass on and whites become a plurality in America, any real advantage to being white may be gone. It might even become a liability to be white. I live in CA, so my experiences are probably different than the rest of the country, but growing up it's cool to put down white people. Everything white equals boring and lame to a lot of people in my generation. White girls are "basic." White people "have no culture." White food has "no flavor." I never participated in that stuff. I don't think any of it is even true, but for some reason a lot of people still struggle to see each person as an individual before an ethnicity. I don't know if humanity will ever get there. @ san_jose_guy "White people are more subject to normative societal standards, like upwards social mobility." What about East Asians? Plenty of stories of East Asian immigrant families going from cleaning houses to being doctors and lawyers in 3 generations or less.

Thank you for your first-person perspective on dating a dancer. Yes, I would like updates. I hope things go well for you, friend.

Good thread. I like it when this site is used to help each other find more information. Not sure if I would call it a "hidden gem" but oftentimes you can do blog searches and find recent first-person updates where people will describe their experiences at certain locations. I did find this site: https://thewhoremonger.com So far, it seems like a one-man blog, but the guy has posted some entertaining stores about his mongering adventures. He's piqued my interest in possibly visiting Brazil sometime in the long-off future. A reminder that there is an entire planet to visit.

Woman like that are the hardest for me to rate. She has individually attractive features, but they don't harmonize well together. Also, not a fan of monster breasts.

@ Che You described Hong Kong as being low-end. A lot of experienced posters on this site seem to view Hong Kong as one of the best places for a monger to go. Which places would you recommend in Tijuana/Mexico as better alternatives?

Whenever people argue about what is right or wrong it almost always boils down to preference and decorum. In the real world, questions about what is fair in a relationship or what someone will tolerate in a relationship are answered by the heart and not the mind. I've already seen plenty of guys who say they will never let a woman walk over them, but then they start dating a particular girl and they end up doing the very things they used to make fun of other guys for doing. Would I ever date a stripper or prostitute? If I was infatuated with her, than probably. Would I be OK with her continuing her job? My mind might say yes, but if I saw her in person grinding naked on another man's body than I may suddenly change my mind.

Most of the good points have already been made. If I could add one more point it's that Tijuana seems like a place where other entertainment are more easily accessible. A couple bucks for a taxi and you can go to a casino, the market, popular restaurants, or the beach. A lot of these FKKs seems a bit tucked away from the rest of society, so there seems to be less to do inside of them and in the immediate vicinity. Correct me if I'm wrong, of course.

Women are often the ones spearheading societal changes, and men are the ones usually playing catch up. Weak men are still despised by both men and women, but a weak women--or at least one who is perceived as weak--can easily find a group of women or men who will try their best to uplift her. That's why telling a boy to stop crying and "be a man" is still de rigueur, but saying that a boy "hits like a girl" is definitely a no-no according to my generation. That said, biology is still a reality, and I don't think there will ever be a time where people can as easily stomach seeing a man punch a woman as they could seeing a man punch another man.

It sounds like science fiction, but supposedly virtual reality porn and convincing sex robots are on the horizon in the next couple of decades. If that happens all bets are off, I guess.

At the turn of the 20th Century, prostitution was tolerated if not legal in many parts of the United States. The movement to ban it was spearheaded mainly by the same First Wave feminists who would also push for Prohibition. @ BurlingtonHoFactory I agree. I do think certain sects of religions are more likely to push for banning prostitution, but I think overall it's an attitude. In China, the government is seen as kind of a "Big Uncle" whose job is to correct misbehavior and push society to what they consider the "correct" path. I think there are plenty of people in America who feel the same way, and I don't even think it's a "liberal" or "conservative" thing either.

To be fair, playing video games is his occupation so this break-up could more accurately be described as him putting his career before his love life. Even with his Internet fame, I'm a bit surprised to see this 5.5/10 dating a famous woman a lot of guys would probably rate a 9/10. She'll forever be labelled as the "hot chick who got dumped by gamer nerd." LOL at this guy calling himself a "GymShark athlete" though. GymShark gear is overpriced, and lifting weights in a commercial gym three times a week does not make an athlete.

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@Trish_Club_Lust Is there a way you prefer to have your pussy sucked? I am trying to improve my oral technique and stamina, and I am open to all advice.

@ Countryman5434 As far as I know, the closest thing the US has to Zona Norte are the legal brothels in Nevada, and the prices are kind of ridiculous even by US standards. If the US legalized prostitution nationwide prices would likely drop, but probably not to Zona Norte prices. Strip clubs would probably become even more of a niche attraction, but I think something former HBO boxing commentator Larry Merchant said in reference to boxing also applies to the strip club industry, “Nothing can save it, and nothing can kill it.” @ nicespice Sex at the Hong Kong Club typically costs between $60.00-$100.00 depending on day of the week, time of day, and the girl herself. The girl keeps 100% of the money earned from sex. Lap dances are $20.00 but the girl only keeps $5.00 of it. There are also drinks the customer purchases for the girl that cost $9.00 each and the girl only keeps $2.00 of it. The big money is in sex, but according to what I have read there are a few girls who are strictly drink and lap dance only girls. They only make a fraction of the money the full service dancers make, but that fraction is still better than what most Mexican workers make on average. @ TFP Vega is my favorite.

@ MackTruck If there's a girl in the middle that makes it OK though.

Thank you everyone for your replies. I was asking for a friend.

Thank you everyone for your replies. I have to admit I just couldn't get into the Wire. I hear all about how great a show it is, but for some reason it just could not maintain my interest. I also never really liked the characters of Omar and Snoop, especially Omar.

@ Liwet Incredible. She made $13,000.00 and she didn't have to have sex with the guy. She didn't even have to get naked. She just had to lead them on with hints at a future relationship while she had a husband back home.

@alibaba888 I saw multiple groups of Asian, some appearing to be Native Asian and others Asian-American, the days I was there. As for safety, practice common sense, travel with the crowd, and don't be a jerk. Also, and sometimes I forget this myself, don't just assume that because someone else is American they are immediately trustworthy. There are quite a few trusted regulars here who visit Tijuana on a pretty regular basis. If you let them know when you are visiting I'm sure they would be happy to meet up and let you know the nitty and the gritty.

Strip away the coarse language, and I actually think everyone here and Salty.Nutz would be in agreement. His main contention seems to be that some strippers claim to strip because they have no other choice. I believe this to be true. His secondary contention is that strippers strip not to fulfill their needs, but to fulfill their wants. This is also true in my observation. I think everyone here is actually in agreement with that. It seems like the main argument is whether that is right or wrong, healthy or unhealthy.