Comments by Bj99 (page 10)

So how can founder encourage both, writing reviews, and paying for vip? It seems like even the heaviest users of this site can’t justify 10.00 per month to support it, so why should casual users, who just read reviews now and then?

i thought you could read the reviews if you wrote one. No?

@ Dirk, TLDR.. forget the “boner fee,” but I’m thinking a “stupid boring manifesto fee,” might be in order.

I wonder.. If for some reason, founder would like more ppl to pay for membership, how could he incentivize that, while still encouraging reviews?

Seems like a pointless thing to do. Why waste your time?

I never said anything about wanting the customers to be more “respectful,” and I only sought to help explain why you might run into whale hunting behavior. It’s is not my personal opinion that whale hunting is the best strategy, but there’s are reasons on girls do it.

Have you considered that maybe you aren’t taking the dancers ques ab how she likes to be touched very well? That would explain why the dancers are asking for more money during dances, AND seeming to not be enjoying the dances.

@ minnow. it’s 10.00 per month. I do see what you are saying, but still.. My guess is that it’s not the money, but the inconvenience of finding a way to pay that won’t show up on your bank statement or credit card.

Why don’t you guys just pay the ten dollars per month to have vip memberships? This is an expensive hobby. I’m surprised you guy won’t pay to support the site.

@ Subraman, that will be $1.50. Win/win!!

It’s not a lot but of money to pay to use the site. I kinda would prefer if only vip members could message me.

Dirk imagines that dancers who enjoy doing dances are “unicorns,” and dancers ask him for mileage tips in the middle of songs.. anyone else see a pattern! lol.

If the song winds up getting cut short, I just tell the customer “that was short. We won’t count that one” no big deal. I was going to be on his lap anyways. Might as well be dancing.

I agree Papi. It’s alwyas better for the customer to be pleasantly surprised. I’ve never understood the slow play thing. I take it all off before we sit down and alwyas give high quality dances. One thing that can be a little off putting is when guys immediately want to suck to tires, the first song, and the first time you meet them, but that’s another conversation.

There’s no novelty on Saturday nights here. It’s packed like a night club, but w strippers. Every girl might as well be new. I would imagine that most customers would prefer for the girl to keep going through all of the songs, and pay the min rate, rather than her charging double, and then only actually dancing for the main songs. I let the customer know at each song, and I don’t not count the short ones. Most are ab 3 mins. It take some time for the girls to rotate stages.

Oh no. I don’t request 3/60. I’d like to, but I think it’s best not to. The sweet spot, for me, is charging the min rate, but counting songs between dancers.

You can make that work for you by letting a girl know you intend to buy multiple dances, if you enjoy them. That would help w mileage too. Some guys want to hold that back, thinking a girl will slow play it, but on a busy shift, she won’t want to only sell one dance.

I’d love to somehow charge 3/60 to guarantee getting at least three, bc the songs before and after are a loss. I only had a few customers get less, and I’m not sure it is worth causing a customer any over thinking or congnitive dissonance. I think my current strategy of pleasantly surprising them, and asking if they’d like another, might be best. Always best to exceed someone’s expectations, and if I get a guy worrying ab a quantity up front, he may be pickier ab which songs we dance to, which is counter productive for me.

It was tiring, but I’d rather just work a lot than deal w the mental stress of hustling. It felt great to make money so easily, and I made ab 175 an hour. I’ll work more busy night shifts. My current strategy is to charge the min rate, but to include the between songs, unless they are very short. I think this is the sweet spot for quality and price increase, since my dances are good, and I’ll be able to use my skills, along w the crowd to make a pretty good amount. It’s no different outcome for me than charging double per song, but the customer gets more songs overall. It also requires the least thinking for the guy. I’m telling any interested customer my day schedule, and my day vip rate.

Omg.. just hand me some money, and we’ll make out in then front room.. ;P

If you understood perfectly, you wouldn’t be arguing w me. I didn’t ask for your feedback, and I don’t need it, and I’m not even making any argument here. Just telling you what I experienced and explaining why dancers do some of the things we see, that can appear to be counter intuitive to making money. You’ve never been a high demand dancer on a busy shift, and until the other night, neither had I.

^ very well put!

Y’all also need to keep in mind that some clubs take a set amount from each dance, and each vip. If that’s the case, it’s to the girl’s benefit to sell fewer dances/vips at a higher price.

I think the club’s set price also acts as quality control. They provide the venue, atmosphere, customers (group effort), and staff. They are kinda saying, our customers will pay this amount for dances, if you cannot make it charging at least this, then you are not a good fit for this club. That way the club doesn’t have to put too much thought into hiring, since girls who can’t make sell dances at their price, will quit. It lets the club’s customers decide which entertainers they want there.

@ Cashman, exactly. Some ppl must have only taken macro.