Bj99
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Comments by Bj99 (page 11)
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7 years ago
Bj99
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@ 25. Not at night, I don’t. I do fine bc I have a nice body, a good honest hustle, and I give good dances. And dancers know all about diminishing returns. Hence, why some are relatively low mileage, especially on the first song. You can say “well, I’d get more dances, if she’d let me do more.” But her experience prolly tells her otherwise, or it’s not worth it to her. Plus, dancing can be tiring. Girls are often just fine w making slightly less, of it means they didn’t have to work very hard.
You are only capable of seeing it from your own side.
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7 years ago
Bj99
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Plus, to some degree, more girls means more guys. Even if it’s not proportional, it’s enough.
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7 years ago
Bj99
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25, it hardly matters to me how many girls are working at the club. I still make my money.
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7 years ago
Bj99
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It’s not just clubs that don’t charge below a min rate. It’s sad how you guys expect strippers to always lower their price, when they aren’t in demand, but can’t comprehand them raising them, when they are. Also, prices aren’t all about YOUR demand, but also her’s. The girls who would lower prices drastically are often desperate for cash bc of issues that nice clubs would rather not encourage or enable.
Many of the girls who charge more aren’t even trying to make more off dances. They are also looking for whales who will pay rediculous amounts for vips. The girls who adapt this strategy save a lot of energy, but make around the same, or more, as the girls who do dances all night long. They do have to deal w more complicated negotiating that can border on ROB behavior.
If you can see things from a dancer’s perspective, then how can you expect them to see things from yours? I’m just trying to tell you what I saw and experienced. Take of it what you want.
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7 years ago
shailynn
They never tell you what you need to know.
I don’t usually stay out late, but I like to get a regular McDonald’s hamburger. Just enough to not be hungry.
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7 years ago
Bj99
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The club doesn’t allow that, and only the most attractive, high demand girls, can charge more. Strippers are corn, or wheat lol.
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7 years ago
Bj99
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See the thing is, you wouldn’t, but other guys would. That’s actually how supply and demand works. I’m just explaining why you run into some of these things that don’t appear to make sense. They didn’t make sense to me either, until I worked a busy night and experienced it for myself.
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7 years ago
gawker
Older than dirt
^ I hate to lol.. but, that’s pretty funny. :P
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7 years ago
abqspencer
somewhere fun
Wow. That was long, but I read every word. Thank you, sharing. I’ve told guys to be more careful ab even giving their number out, since it’s usually attached to Facebook.
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7 years ago
gawker
Older than dirt
It sounds like a horribly unhealthy relationship. You prolly do make her uncomfortable, but it’s her fault too. You should not be the one accompanying her for an abortion, and the person accompanying her shouldn’t be worried ab their own sexual gratification anywhere near that time.
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7 years ago
theDirkDiggler
Illinois
Omg.. SJG.. that’s just insane.
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7 years ago
Bj99
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I don’t raise my prices, but I do charge for the songs between dancers. They are usually around 3 mins. If they are super short, I don’t charge. Still. It think it’s better to pay the min for four, than double for two w breaks between. Only the most in demand girls can charge more, but I don’t see a huge benefit. Just letting you know where the dancers are coming from when they do this (if stated before).
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7 years ago
Bj99
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^ it’s supply and demand. The clubs set minimum prices, but most allow girls to raise it. You can maybe get a fugly girl for less.. I don’t know.. it makes sense that the ones in high demand might charge more. That’s all.
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7 years ago
Bj99
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Actually, shorter boners are more work bc I usually have to lift up a guy’s belly to get to it. :P
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7 years ago
Bj99
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And dirk is a defensive little bitch to start some shit like that. Fuck you also, dirk.
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7 years ago
Bj99
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^ fuck you. I never said that, you stupid fuck.
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7 years ago
Bj99
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It’s more like “boner feedback,” if getting a guy hard is a ‘B’ and making him jizz in his pants is an ‘A’. It’s much easier to get the night shift guys hard.. actually, I think they are walking around like that.
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7 years ago
Bj99
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There’s no fucking boner fee! :P Read Subraman’s explaination. I’m just saying that the reason guys are dissapointed by dancer’s dance quality at night, is bc they aren’t used to trying as hard as the day shift girls, so they might not learn.
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7 years ago
Bj99
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I didn’t mention a “boner fee.” Please reread.
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7 years ago
theDirkDiggler
Illinois
^ that’s a smart way to see it. It’s rarely about the customer, and more ab how she feels about herself and her job (except in those obvious cases listed above).
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7 years ago
Bj99
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Yeah. I told the ones interested in vips/ multiple dances, my day shifts and my day shift rates. Does seem like a great way to drum up some new regulars
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7 years ago
theDirkDiggler
Illinois
If a pl can’t enjoy a dance unless he believes the dancer enjoys the dance, by his terms, it puts added pressure on her, and can have a negative self fulfilling prophecy affect. Much like when dancers worry so much ab making money. It’s best to try to put that concern aside and just let yourself enjoy. Then it’s easier for her to relax.
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7 years ago
Bj99
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^ with the money you spend, you can prolly negotiate for her to spend an entire day shift w you. She’d likely come in just to see you.