Comments by a21985 (page 8)

@jon, I still don't know if you're trolling or not (if it makes you feel, I kinda assume most people on here troll every so often, to the point I'm suspicious about myself), but I have another simple observation for you. If you have trouble dealing with some guys behind a keyboard busting your balls, I don't you're cut out for dealing with being married to an active stripper (whether she's a high mileage girl or not). Simply based on what I've seen from your responses, there honestly does appear to be some pretty clear insecurity issues you got going on when it comes to this topic. That isn't me busting your balls, this is what is just clear as day to me, her doing this is going to eat you alive from the inside out. I truly think you should find a way to talk her out of going this way and have her find a different outlet for what she is looking for.

I've got this a lot in Detroit clubs. However, their no rules declaration (which sometimes comes in the form of you can do whatever you want) usually is followed by "except for anal," which completely defeats the whole no rules statement they previously made.

I pay for dances, and I don't go to the club without getting dances. If the a dancer hangs out with me for an exorbinant amount of time after/before dances, payment will only come in the form of drinks.

I'm skeptical about your post, but I'll play along. Would you trust any of us with your wife, because I'm a sauve mother fucker (at least compared to my fellow creepy strip club PLs) who's got money to burn, and I'd be looking to fuck her. Would you believe any stripper in regards to what she says she does or doesn't do if they weren't your wife? What are you (not) doing in your relationship to the point she wants to go back to stripping with the main reason seemingly surrounding building up her esteem and making her feel empowered? Now after thinking about all that, the next questions are, how secure are you with yourself and your marriage and did you at any point realize when you married a stripper that this would be inevitable? Girls who strip are not known for being able to live normal lives, no matter how hard they try.

Craigslist's personals have been gone for about 2 weeks now. It was like the first domino in all of this.

Any computer tech is going to turn you in if they find blatabtly illegal material on your machine, not just Geek Squad (who happens to just have a bigger volume of computer illiterate morons than anyone else, hence making them more newsworthy). That said, let's be real and not beat around the bush; this is 99.9% about child pornography and thank goodness Geek Squad and other techs are routinely turning in these fuckwits. I don't think these people could give a rat's ass about Johns/hobbyists or legal porn collectors. As long as you don't have blatantly illegal porn, exploit children, traffic people, and keep record of it on your machine, your fine. These guys have seen more embarrassing legal porn/pic collections and browser histories than what you probably have.

Is this serious? Like, really man? Go to a strip club, find a girl. No credit card/personal info needed and no shady website who's domain was registered only 2 months ago involved either.

Well, that was dissapointing. I was expecting a ridiculous reason for the towel, not the obvious one. Seems crystal clear the waitress knew this dancer isn't the brightest and is chronically unprepared for the messy fesitivities she partakes in in the VIP, and didn't want to be called on yet again to bring napkins or worse...clean it up. Was really hoping for something out of left field.

I'm with @lone_wolf on this one. I had no delusions about what was happening with my data at FB, its almost laughable thr number of people surprised by all this. I've had an account since 2004 as a freshman when my college finally was finally added to the list of supported schools in the early days when it was college only. It's been part of my routine of how I keep in touch with people for 14 years, and I don't care to change that now.

Is this a trick question? I assume the answer isn't the obvious one, otherwise you posing the question at the doesn't make much sense. Non-obvious guesses: The dancer is a klutz and spills drinks a lot? The dancer sweats profusely? There was a leak in the ceiling above the spot?

@jack and @shailynn - which Detroit clubs? Makes sense nearer to Dearborn that they'd have him, but I've never seen them...

SJG - there are plenty of things that go on in the clubs we talk about here that law prohibits. Anyways, haven't seen them in any clubs I frequent in SE Detroit. In my younger years I enjoyed an occasional hookah. But I I gave up smoking anything (cigs, cigars, pipe, hookah, etc...) over 5 years ago. I now will only vape to get my nic fix. I don't hate being around smoking, but I imagine the smoke hookah produces would be obnoxious in a club in terms of visibility.

No, not a fan. I personally derive no pleasure from this, not to say I don't apreciate the effort of a lady who gives it a go.

@Papi - very important point. Beware the delusional, smitten PL.

I personally would not spend much ITC after getting an OTC meeting. Its clear OTC is the end game for him, once he gets it, that'd be what he'd shoot for going forward. If thats not for you, then he'll probably move on to someone else ITC anyways. Bottom line, think of this as a polite ultimatum at this point since he has laid his cards on the table. You are probably losing the same level of ITC money from here on no matter what, but potentially gaining an OTC client. If OTC makes you uncomfortable, cut your losses, since it most likely won't a one time thing/ask from him if thats what you're hoping. Then again, I could be wrong. But PLs are pretty predictable.

Those tits are absolutely incredible.

Thanks! We'll see how long I last before I inevitably crawl back inside it.

I do it often. With such a big Detroit contigent in here, I assume at least one of you is at the same club as me at the same time.

I miss all the whale avatars from a couple years back.

Amen. I keep names to myself. The only exception is through PMs on another regional, much lower traffic site. Even then it's just general info when requested on a specific dancer (stuff like, is she good or a ROB, is she still at so and so, how pricey, etc...)

I used to be 100% a variety guy. Even if I really like a dancer, at most I would repeat once or twice and move on. Then I met my ATF, for the better part of a year, I was pretty much exclusively going to the club to see her. She was great in and out of the club and at one point I'd consider her a good friend. But ultimately started to wear me out financially and bore me to the point I took a 6 month break from her and clubbing altogether. In the year since I've returned to the game, I've only ran into her once. I ended up having some VIP fun with her and thought I would slip back to seeing just her, but that hasn't been the case at all. I've only seen every girl since 1 time and moved on. A CF/ATF is tempting, and I'm sure I'll go back to one eventually, but I'm a variety guy through and through.

At least in the Detroit clubs I frequent and the girls I go to the VIP with, DFK isn't the exception it's the rule (out of a couple dozen or so dancers, only like 3 or so weren't having it). It's to the point that if the girl doesn't offer that up, I'm not usually interested in much more. I find the girl usually offers it up themselves and early on in the dance before extras get started. Some have even initiated on the floor, but those are usually GFE providing ladies. If not the dancer doesn't initiate, sometimes I'll do some light neck kissing and the they eventually get the hint. Mind you I always go early afternoon shift before the girls have had a chance to do any damage in the VIP with another guy (at least that's what I tell myself). If I went later during a shift, I would probably pass on the kissing, because...you know.

The tats are a bit much, but I'm a big fan of that ass.

You know it's not an extras club when it is a Deja Vu.

Since its a similar concept/topic, for anyone who struggles saying worcestershire sauce, it's pronounced wooster-sure sauce.