Comments by Eagle1191 (page 8)

Slow times are the best times as the ladies are often bored, open to conversation, and not in "business mode" for a lack of a better term. This is the time where you get to know them and establish rapport which often benefits both you and the dancers. Often during busy times the dancers I have gotten to know will stop by my table as they know I will buy a dance or take a short break to say hi.

As long as what you choose makes you happy, if your paying then your happiness is most important. Hope this works out well for you.

Would never do so, it's wrong to take advantage of anyone when they are not themselves, do not know what they are actually doing and do not have any recollection of what happped, it is rape physically and mentally and one of the most violating things a person can do to another.

Why are you looking to pay her bills ?, I'm sure she makes plenty of money as a dancer to have few if any money problems.

I am new to going to the club as well but I found out that theres a few easy ways to get what you want with a large or small spending amount. If you see that rare gem or just a lady you like you can wait until she is dancing and keep her company, tipping while you chat with her. If she is sitting alone see if she would like a drink or some company(do not approach a dancer on her cell phone excessively as she probably is not in the mood for a customer). Approaching a dancer takes a little confidence but make sure to smile, and be friendly not a creep as they get all sorts or people in and out of these clubs. Some will come to you but unless it's the day shift or not very crowded the best way of getting the girl you want a dance from is to be proactive and not a passive coward. I learned much of this from my first visit and also from my CF who has been very good to me as I talk to her and got to know her to the point whenever I come now she is happy to chat, discount a dance, and/or does "extras" without me ever asking.

She might be amazing but if she's going be start being jealious now when originally she was ok with this set up what else will she do this with ?, you need to be a man and make sure she knows you are not her "pet" and making ultimatums after agreeing at first is her not holding up to the arangement made. Ask her what made her change her mind and why she doesn't like the original agreement non the less before you make a decision as she might have a valid reason or need some reassurance.

Only know one woman in her 30's who is pretty giving for touch, but I am much more careful with her since she is married and I personally do not mess with that.

This is not the case on the East Coast, have to say it really sucks you are not finding the dancers your looking for.

This is an obvious answer question, better choices are needed as most including me would choose option B.

You make me laugh topic creator, also what is with the simple jack routine ?

More like they pretend to not be over priced escorts.

Perhaps meet her in a public place first, it's not really surprising for a woman to be weary of meeting a guy they only know from the club at his place since theres a lot of weird and dangerous people who prey on strippers and hookers. A public place OTC is safer for both of you and she will be more relaxed, it's also a way to get her to be more comfortable with you OTC.

Shower, shave, and clean clothes as no one should be forced to dance for a dirty unwashed savage. Going out in public should require some self respect or atleast courtesy.

Sometimes the obvious is needed, it is kinda funny the article.

This is why arranged marriage doesn't work if the people have never met, do not get along, or do not find each other attractive.

A, I am not going to do anything with someone I do not find attractive, going to the SC is for fun, its not fun in my book if the strippers are not attractive and friendly. A place with few or no good looking women will not last long or do well.

As fun as it is in the club I'd still rather the lady and I have fun in private, I do not want other people getting a free show and while she is with me I'd rather have her to myself alone. Some guys don't mind others seeing what they are getting but I do as I feel it is less fun with an audience.

I have to say "sugar babies" are lower then hookers, or strippers big time, since they can pull all kinds of BS denials before/if they ever have sex with the "sugar daddy" just walking next to him or doing this "pretend girlfriend" crap while they continue to gouge a guy's wallet. "Sugar babies" are also a hell of a lot more expensive with less honesty as they could be with just one "sugar daddy" or stringing a bunch of them on for little to no pay off. Strippers can give fake affection but you actually get what you pay for and know a good stripper can make that experience very fun for a fixed price with lots of options and a variety of people. Hookers also have more honor as you know you are going to get sex out of it once you pay, no "buy my this and maybe....." crap cause the hooker would be out of business fast trying to pull that garbage. I also laugh at the "mentoring" BS that some "sugar daddies" claim cause that shit is so false and full of lies it's not funny, heck they are so delusional they are making up such a laughable farce.

Everyone has different tastes Clubber, what makes this world so fun wouldn't you agree ?

I always tip if they are doing a good dance which is most of the time, a few dancers have not really cared but the place was dead. I was one of two there and we had just walked in, when the next song started she put effort into it one day which was pretty funny since she and another girl were just chatting away since no one had come in yet.

Joke Reply- You need to handle this like Les Grossman from "Tropic Thunder" topic creator.

I check the prices, and pay attention to how friendly/pushy the girls are, I HATE beggers and the ones that try forcing you to buy them a drink/dance as they reek of desparation and are usually not the best lookers. Worst case of begging happened during the day where I was checking out other strip clubs as soon as I walked in the door a girl comes up as if waiting for whoever walks in, let me ask the bartender drink and dance prices and then started this: "will you buy a dance with me, come on it will be fun, please, come on I am begging here". I walked out the door and will probably not return as there was atleast 2 other people there besides me.

Been kissed on the cheek by a few but thats all, don't know why some would want to kiss a stripper on the lips as thats a bit more intamate and usually something reserved for someone you really care about. More importantly you do not know where her lips have been, or you do know as she might have just got done going down on you.

You seem strange topic creator and this is only my first night on here.

Seems like you hit a bad day or the club might have new dancers not to established yet cause I have had many great lap dances from young and older ladies, and maybe 1 that was "eh" but still decent. All these places have good and bad days I wager, shame you hit a bad one.