Comments by anonlvone (page 9)

try to talk your wife into couples therapy. if you want to save your marriage it might help, but you need to be really careful about the therapist you get. don't get a therapist who hates men and is going to blame you for everything. but you also don't want to get a therapist who is "value neutral" and will help push you into a divorce. unless of course you want a divorce, in which case you should still seek a therapist b/c it might make the divorce process smoother and less painful

that's b/c you were pre-qualified, the three credit reporting agencies track your employment history, your residential history and your payment history for starters. doesn't everyone know this?

just about everyone is addressing this from one side only, which doesn't surprise me. i will agree with taxi driver here, in that i don't go into clubs looking for whores. i hate the "wanna dance" girls, but i equally avoid the ones who grab my dick and immediately start talking about the fun we can have in VIP. with that understood, of course the girls i see OTC are never whores either personally i find it laughable, that there are guys here who think they've somehow earned bragging rights bc/ they've fucked whores, or who try to act like they actually know anything about women when it's obvious the only experience they have is using an ATM. i don't normally give a shit about someone's else self-delusions, but some of the trolls on here just leave me no choice but to call them out on their bullshit. dancers are not civilians, and prostitutes are not dancers. people need to be more honest about what they're doing.

apparently, yeah, i've come across several really beautiful dancers who were only dancers just long enough to buy cars, then immediately quit

Murder by social media has been around for awhile now. The first time I learned of it happening, I was shocked. Now I can't even remember the names of all the victims. Anyone arguing this wasn't bullying is ignorant. I read some of the comments. I never knew August Ames. I will say flat out it was bullying. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat... seems everyone has a digital identity these days. Everyone's personal info is being put out onto the Internet in naive trust, gathered up and analyzed by corporations and governments, and then used against us in increasingly sophisticated psychological warfare programs. Everyone's digital profile is being continually compared to everyone else's. It's the ultimate reality show, a spectacle so absorbing that people are so addicted and so engrossed by their smart phones and other electronic media that they are literally walking off of cliffs. Every little bit of digital social recognition triggers a dopamine rush. Like rats pushing levers, we anxiously await our newest online "friend", our next "like", our most recent "comment." People who use social media are more anxious and more depressed, than those who don't. But what of those who were already anxious and depressed to begin with? There's been at least three Silicon Valley refugees who have now come forward to issue mea culpas for their roles in first creating and then weaponizing social media, with its attendant destruction of the social fabric of society. I'd like to submit that the victims we've seen thus far are the canaries in the coal mine. The socially ostracized adolescents, the porn starlets, even those supposedly secure adults who lived a double life and suddenly had that secret life exposed before all the world. Twitter isn't just a social media platform. It's also a marketing tool. Porn stars use it to advertise themselves, to keep in touch with existing fans, and to hopefully find new ones. The degenerate, mentally ill homosexuals (and yes, homosexuality IS a mental illness), know this, and that is why they targeted August Ames and many others besides her, to not only attack them socially, but economically as well. This goes far beyond mere bullying. If you dismiss her as weak, as depressed, that may help you sleep at night, but you are blind fools, if you don't understand that there is an approaching nexus of digital observation and tracking, fed into and analyzed by emerging artificial intelligence, and resulting in predictive programming in the form of an ever more immersive artificial reality.

should have told her "I'm old, where's my senior citizen's discount?"

oh yeah, forgot to add, if you're a Muslim faggot, you're obligated to immediately throw yourself off a tall building, unless you earn a special dispensation by throwing a traitorous faggot off a tall building in your place (like a certain politician whose first name starts with Paul and who was butt buddies with the recent faggot in chief)

@ san_jose_guy - Mercedes Grabowski, the birth name of August Ames

He probably killed himself because the world learned he was living a lie. Maranda Richmond, his daughter's best friend, claims he molested her when she was 17. I tend to believe her because just the circumstances surrounding the incident were shady as fuck. He was protected until he was no longer useful. These days it's open season on any Republican. Anything that will help bring down Trump.

senators and congressmen legislating against prostitution is like Russians legislating against vodka...

this is why people should have some actual experience with strip clubs and strippers before coming onto a site like this. there's a lot of posing and closed minds and misinformation and just bad advice given here that makes it impossible to actually try to connect with dancers as real people. i feel sorry for the guys like larry fishsticks whose info about clubbing begins and ends with tuscl.

some are good actresses, yes. but in my case, i can use dancers I got to know outside of clubs as reference points, and think back to how they behaved in the club before we started getting together outside the club

chemistry between dancers and customers does happen occasionally. from my own experience i would say the most typical or usual giveaway is that she consistently goes above and beyond what is necessary from a purely transactional perspective. for example, she'll spend much more time chatting with me than necessary. even return to me again and again in between dancing for other customers. telling me that I don't have to buy dances and she is serious.

@rickdugan - my money says yes b/c that was the original agreement, they move in, he fucks her on the sly. nothing like true love... also 2 thumbs up to 4got2wipe for "nightmare stripper"

so she got exactly what she wanted. same old same old. the self-delusion goes on...

could be wrong, but i think daytime dancers tend to be less attractive, and are chasing fewer dollars. also they tend to have children to provide for.

I got 16 of 20 correct. 80%. Because of the way the photos were taken, the angles and the framing I found it a bit difficult. But usually absurdly high nipples, breasts that are too round and too close together are giveaways.

i can't believe i read all this nonsense. i can't believe there are guys who actually put up with this shit.

http://bnonews.com/news/index.php/news/id6821 Suicide. So in this fucked up politically correct world, not wanting to get AIDS makes you a bad person?

I think there's a presumption that a single woman alone in a club might be a "working girl."

I've known several strippers who went into real estate.

I think you did the prudent thing. Not knowing anything about either one of them, much less what type of relationship they have, I just wouldn't understand the thinking behind offering a complete stranger $2,000 for a date. Regardless of what she looked like, I would turn and walk away from any girl who accepted that offer - but obviously I'm approaching things from a completely different mindset.

@Sal - If the only thing you didn't like was her weight, why didn't you ask her to hit the gym with you? Lots of couples make workouts part of their daily lives.

@JohnSmith69 - what is a DC?

I just read another of your posts. At age 30, you don't seem to have any actual knowledge or experience with women. And the amount of money you're spending is absurd. You should not be in strip clubs. You're like every stripper's PL dream come true.