Comments by anonlvone (page 11)

Those were my first 2 sentences in this thread. What I have repeatedly stated, and what you have repeatedly failed to "catch" is that I advise forgetting about her. If I were in his shoes, and I thought there might possibly be some extenuating circumstance, then I would call the club and speak to her by phone, and the only response I would accept would be something along the lines of "Oh, I'm sorry, I lost your number, I lost my phone, etc" and then I would proceed to set up a date with her outside the club and I would never return to the club again (at least not for her). If she responded with anything else, I would forget about her.

"The fact that she didn't give you her number bothers me. "Give me your number and I will text you" is typical stripper shit." <= My first two sentences in this thread. Reading is fundamental. What I have repeatedly stated, and what you have repeatedly failed to "catch" is that I advise forgetting about her. If I were in his shoes, and I thought there might possibly be some extenuating circumstance, then I would call the club and speak to her by phone, and the only response I would accept would be something along the lines of "Oh, I'm sorry, I lost your number, I lost my phone, etc" and then I would proceed to set up a date with her outside the club and I would never return to the club again (at least not for her). If she responded with anything else, I would forget about her.

okay, apparently i'm the last guy on the planet who remembers that the original reason for having a phone was to make phone calls. i'm so sorry i lost my head and suggested that he actually try to call a girl. i have no idea what i was thinking. apparently we need some leftist SJW feminist male to come into this thread and teach me the correct way to approach women because trying to speak to her over a phone is just way too forward for 2017

and this is where the term "pathetic losers" came from, a bunch of "guys" who may as well not even have balls...' I'm the one saying to forget about her, i'm the one saying don't ever get any dances from her, i'm the one saying if you really have to have contact again, have some respect for yourself and your own time, rather than making multiple pointless trips to some distant club just to chase some stripper who doesn't even seem to be interested in you, and that's what you consider a "pathetic stalker"? wow, how do you manage to walk around with your head so far up your ass?

lesson #1, just because a dancer offers extras, itc or otc to one guy doesn't mean she will offer them to you. you're gonna have to learn how to communicate with dancers. simply asking isn't being rude. they get asked every day.

this has nothing to do with trump, who is nothing like bill clinton. clinton was expelled from Oxford because he was spending his time raping coeds, that's how long he's been at it. in contrast, the obamas and the clintons spent years, and millions of dollars and even tasked the cia and the nsa to dig up dirt on trump, and at the end of it all they came up with nada, zilch, ZERO

i'm swiftly coming to the conclusion that you don't know all that much about strip clubs, and even less about women. you want him to drive hours out of his way, and then hang out at the club for yet more hours just on the off chance that she might be working that night, and might not be too busy to talk to him, and might feel like approaching him... and if she is working, and if she's not busy with a whale or regular, and if she actually decides to approach him, then he's supposed to pretend that he just came in for a beer, but hey, as long as you're here, why don't we go out for dinner??? really? cuz that type of approach definitely wouldn't make him seem like the world's greatest wuss/stalker/loser/beta male you must think all women/dancers are idiots, that they wouldn't understand what he was doing from a mile away and since your reading skills seem to be as deficient as your reasoning, I never for a moment suggested he call the club to find out if she was working so that he could waste time driving over there, what I said was, call the club and ask to speak to her if she is there finally, news flash for ya, but one of the jobs of club managers is to hook girls up with guys who want dances from them, i know, shocking, you better sit down for this next part, but I routinely ask managers if a certain new girl is working, and they will routinely either send her to me or recommend another girl, i have no idea what the hell you do in clubs, that you think a patron asking for a dancer is any way unusual or a big deal or something that would require a "head's up" roflmao

@Doces300 - a grown woman recently accused the elder bush of groping her at a photo op. when she talked to the SS they knew it was a thing. so did Barbara Bush. this is hardly a witch hunt. the others now coming forward are repeating the exact same story. same thing with Weinstein - the same stories over and over again.

If you thought George Bush seemed like a nice guy you were not paying attention.

@BurlyHo - He's stated the club is several hours away. He could make the drive only to discover she's not even there. Personally if I didn't hear from her I would forget about her. "Give me your number and I will text you" does not sound like a connection.

it's not a role reversal at all, b/c they're not expressing interest in you, they're expressing interest in your money, a dancer in a club asking for a dance isn't that far removed from a homeless lady on the street asking for money, i dislike saying no in either case, but since I have no way of knowing what they will do with my money, I prefer to make my charitable contributions in other ways, i really dislike it when dancers put me in that position, because my preference is to approach the dancers myself. having a young girl flirt with me outside of a club is role reversal, but there when you decline they tend to get bitchy and mean, as in hell hath no fury like a woman scorned, so that's not fun either.

I get approached by young women half my age outside of clubs. So I guess I'm coming from a different perspective. I dislike turning down young women either in or out of clubs, but particularly in clubs. It's the number one thing I dislike the most about going to strip clubs.

thank you Eve, for verifying what I suspected, from time to time I will come across a dancer who is sharper than most, and she will ask me questions which seem a little too pointed

i'm out of this thread as you *clearly* know what you're talking about /sarcasm

it will? how? how many strippers have you dated?

@ebuchh13 - the above advice is if you don't hear from her and want closure. call the club, ask to speak to her, and ask what's up. if you do hear from her, call her and ask her out.

mdfmk888, you're making this way too complicated. he's knows her dance name and her real name, he can just call the club and ask if she's working. no need to make a long ass trip for no reason. i'm sure he doesn't know her schedule or her hours.

Yeah, your age does matter, it affects the advice I'm giving you. Unlike others I'm not gonna tell you not to date strippers, first because you won't listen anyway, and second, because you gotta learn for yourself. But I will say if you like a girl don't buy any dances from her. Ideally what you want to do is make it clear that you want to date her, not buy dances from her. Ideally you want to ask her out before you ever buy even one dance. Ask her if there's a nice restaurant nearby she wants to try. If she rejects you, then enjoy getting dances from other girls, but not from her. She's already under your skin, and if she doesn't have any real interest in you that's not good.

Dancers are flakey under the best of circumstances. She could have lost your number 60 min after meeting you. She could have lost her phone. She could decide to stop dancing. I could think of any number of scenarios. If you see a girl in a club you like, you have to act immediately. If you want a dance, approach her. If you want a date, tell her.

The fact that she didn't give you her number bothers me. "Give me your number and I will text you" is typical stripper shit. If a girl really wants you to contact her, she will get your number and text you on the spot to verify the number. Of course it's possible there are other things going on. Maybe she doesn't have a phone. Mayber her phone is shut off. Regardless, I would say if you see her in the club again, DO NOT buy any dances from her. If you want a dance, buy it from some other girl. This girl, if you see her again, ask her out, which is really what you should have done the first night you met her.

I'll never look at a MacBook Pro the same way again lol. A few years ago I think I paid $3,500 for mine. For that much I could prolly have had the entire weekend with your 9+ dancer.

lmao, how about i do the field research, and you do the charts and graphs? i'm more of a "hands on" type researcher :P

never tried to do a survey, but it comes up a lot during conversations, dancers will tell me one of the reasons they got into dancing is b/c they enjoy looking at women, or you notice a dancer paying lots of attention to another dancer on stage, and when you ask her she confirms it, seems to be really common

oops, left out the part about being advanced at your job solely because you have a vagina lol

welcome to the wonderful world of affirmative action where unqualified people are given preferential treatment, higher pay, better work conditions, even promotions based solely upon the color of their skin or speaking Spanish, in the name of greater diversity as enforced by meaningless statistics