Comments by samiel (page 5)

@nicespice Don't leave us in suspense! Did you take the $600? ;)

Maybe I should have worded the question as, do you spend most of your money at the club on one dancer or spread it around? It sounds like most of you (and myself) generally spend most of our money on one dancer when we go to the club.

Not sure about TJ, but they exist in Japan and possibly other Asian countries. https://rockitreports.com/review-paradise-tokyo-japan/

This explains a lot!

Everything I learned about SCs and front room make out sessions, I learned from TUSCL! Seriously, it was TUSCL that opened my eyes to activities ITC and OTC. OTC appealed more to me since I'm paranoid ITC. I was regular seeing a dancer ITC who strictly did not do extras ITC. One day she let it slip that sometimes she'd meet people OTC. It wasn't until a bit later I asked her about OTC. She never actually brought it up with me. It was definitely not something she did regularly. We were always super comfortable around each other and really I wasn't looking for OTC FS at the time. It was just the perfect storm of being comfortable with her, me knowing she never did ITC extras, and me knowing she wasn't a high traffic girl. Everything we did was covered and super safe. Her safety and our comfortable relationship led to more OTC encounters. She started traveling for work and eventually stopped texting me. I don't know what happened to her, but I hope she's doing well!

These days, if I'm interested, I'll generally wait until I've had dances from a girl twice before asking about extras. I've found they definitely want you to be straight forward about it. If they don't think you're a cop, they will be pretty honest in my experience. My first ITC extra, the dancer broke the subject with me and offered FS for $300. I ended up going for a HJ for $100, but was so paranoid ITC that I couldn't keep it hard and definitely didn't finish. My first OTC occurred with a dancer I'd been seeing ITC but she was a strict no extras ITC girl. I broached the subject with her by asking if she'd see me OTC. She said yes and it was as simple as that.

I think meeting F2F in club is fine and probably safest. We can all profile each other all day long, but Internet personas and IRL personas don't always match. If anything, I could see a PL possibly hurting a reputation here, but then again perhaps no one on here would necessarily take anyone else too seriously. I haven't seen anyone be overly harsh about you specifically. In fact, it's been quite the opposite with you. In any case, I try not to make assumptions about anyone, but I'll admit an online presence would make me curious about meeting them IRL. So it's definitely a plus in my book if more dancers registered here and let us know about themselves.

I feel so bad for SirLapdancealot right now!

@Nicespice How would you like rejection to occur? Maybe the guy likes the way you look but is not ready for a dance at the moment. I'm always worried the dancer might take it the wrong way.

I've rarely been rejected by a dancer. If I'm interested in one, I'll definitely approach her. That said, I'm always aware of how I reject them. Sometimes I feel I'm too harsh or abrupt. I have a rule now. Names must be exchanged before rejection occurs. So instead of "hey babe, want a dance?" and "no thanks" from me, it ends up more like "hey babe, want a dance?" and "oh hi, what's your name?" "My name is Badspice." "Hey there Badspice, I'm Samiel, nice to meet you. I'm not looking for dances currently, but I will keep you in mind." So it makes it feel less abrupt and you get to learn the dancer's name for future reference.

I'm just wondering who has to do his laundry!

My guess is for regular dances, not a big difference. For a HJ probably not a big difference either. For a BJ or FS, probably a big difference. For kissing, probably a big difference as well.

If I'm there for a specific girl or I just decide I'm done for the night, I have the last girl walk me to the door and I leave.

I had a dancer's first dance before. It was terrible. I'm actually not sure if she's still dancing.

I missed an opportunity to see her as well... stupid work! Hopefully she'll be in my area soon again. I'm terrible at massages though, so I can only offer boring conversation and a $200 OTC.

Where I go, VIPs are treated as, well, VIPs. I think whales might lose you a couple of customers if they are there every night taking up the same few girls everyone wants. Typically though, they are not there every night and possibly don't take up the same girls every time or at least not all night. If I had a CF or ATF who wanted to be with a whale, I'm fine with that. I can always come in another day.

I don't think much of it. I've had guys offer to buy me a drink (I don't drink alcohol, so I generally refuse). I still thank them though. Sometimes they just want to be noticed and sometimes they get pleasure out of being generous. I've also offered drinks to strangers and also the occasional dance. In fact, there's a guy at my home club I'm very friendly with now due to me buying him a dance. I thought he could use one, but it turned out he's a regular there and it was very normal for him to be sitting around by himself (he only likes specific girls and other girls seem to know not to approach him). In general I think it's probably strange for guys at SCs to interact if they don't know each other. It may be that we're all self-conscious when were there.

She looked shy, almost lost, with innocent doe-like eyes. She also had amazing DD breasts.

I've dropped off dancers at most 40 min away. Beyond that, I'm not sure I would.

I think a whale spends far more money than say 5-8 regulars but probably doesn't lock down 5-8 girls. Plus I'd bet the club is getting way more from bottle service and drinks than from 5-8 regulars.

In gaming it means Player Killer.

Yes, there are a ton of dancers at that point... even more at night. The DJs and house moms make a killing those days, lol. With so many girls it's somewhat hard to make money for many. So I was talking to a CF today and it turns out she was the one arrested that first Wednesday. Apparently she had an outstanding warrant and another dancer (who literally hates her) found out and called the cops. So the girl that called the cops apparently bragged about getting this girl arrested. When my CF got back to work, this girl was chiding her, but the manager told her to get her shit and leave. Apparently calling the cops was bad business for the club, lol.

I see that all the time at night in terms of whales. One guy or table with six girls constantly rotating in and out with managers hanging out and proper etiquette not being followed. Usually if a girl is with a guy, most other girls won't approach, but in the whale situation it happens like crazy. This kind of thing happens when I get a bottle at night. If I'm sitting there with a CF and get a bottle for her to share with her friends, suddenly random dancers and waitresses come out if the woodwork trying to hustle drinks and dances from me.

I've actually never been to a club with a champagne room (that I've noticed). That said, my home club sells them starting around $300 bottle (retail is probably $30 or so). I have several bottles on tab, but apparently it doesn't include champagne, but I can get a bottle of Jack or Crown or whatever, no problem. Seems like they try to make champagne special. If you get a bottle, you automatically get your own waitress and a private cabana (still relatively open though) or VIP access. To me it's only worth it for access on very busy nights. At BYOB places, I'll bring a sparkling wine like champagne, usually a Cava or Prosecco. These tend to be a little less expensive and taste equivalent. We mix these with orange juice for mimosas. The dancers seem to like these as they are pretty light. At my home club, I hardly see anyone buy champagne. It's usually vodka or whiskey or tequila here in Texas. Maybe it's a regional thing.

Yeah, maybe I should reword that to say dancers who don't do extras. Although I have done OTC with dancers, there are still those I see ITC only with no extras.