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13 years ago
Under those circumstances, your friend should do what the one dancer who I've gotten dances from does. She has her customers put the money on a table or ledge where both her and the customer can see it before starting the dance to make sure that the customer can pay.
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13 years ago
I've gotten dances from one dancer who insists on seeing the cash before starting the dance. She doesn't ask for it, but she insists on seeing that you have it.
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13 years ago
At the clubs I go to the club get's a cut of every dance. Out of a $25 dance the dancer gets to keep $15 and $10 goes to the club.
Customers there do not rip off the dancers because the bouncers are there to make sure that the club get's it's cut.
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13 years ago
I think I'm the only regular strip club customer on here who doesn't go to strip clubs for "extras", either in or out of the club. I enjoy private dances in private rooms, and I will not get one without two way contact being part of the deal. I don't touch between the legs and I don't get "extras", but I insist on being allowed to touch almost everywhere else or else I will get a room with a different dancer. I don't go to the one club in the area where I live that has a policy where customers are allowed to touch, "anywhere you want except the chest, butt, and between the legs" because if I'm going to spend over $100 I'm going to get to touch the dancer.
I'm shocked that you get repeat customers if your personal rules are all contact has to be one way and customers aren't allowed to touch you, or are very limited in how much they can touch you and you don't grind on them very much, if at all. The strippers who I know outside of the strip clubs are all complaining to me that the economy is killing them. Men who used to get private rooms are getting lap dances and men who used to get lap dances are sitting at the stage and tipping. The strippers who are earning the most are all giving blow jobs or more in the private rooms and management is looking the other way while telling the dancers that if they get caught they'll get fired. This is not happening at one club, it's happening at a lot of clubs if not all of them. My prediction is that if the economy doesn't start to pick up "extras" will start being free instead of an extra $50 plus $50 to the bouncer to ignore the camera in the room for a blow job because business at strip clubs is going to keep slowing down and we all need to put food on our tables.
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13 years ago
The truth is, it depends. I've had lap dances with strippers who were bored and going through the motions and I've had private dances with a stripper who brought herself off during the dance. I've also seen everything in between.
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13 years ago
What about the temperature? I know that I've mentioned being chilly in clubs to dancers a few times when I was wearing long pants, socks, shoes, and a heavier shirt and/or a jacket and their comments to me have been along the lines of, "You're chilly? I'm freezing!" The "too cold" temperature happens in the summer and the winter both.
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13 years ago
In Pennsylvania they're written around alcohol being sold. Some Italian restaurants that can't get licenses to sell alcohol serve a free glass of wine with meals too.
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13 years ago
Some clubs in Pa that don't sell alcohol give it away for free. They charge a cover at the door and they sell a plastic cup for $1 and then it's free drinks all night. That's an option in a club that doesn't sell alcohol depending on your local laws.
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13 years ago
One dancer in the club that I go to the most often is friendly, affectionate, etc. until after I get a dance with her. After the dance she's chatting up her next potential customer. But the next time she see's me she makes a beeline for me because she knows that I'm good for a dance and a tip. It's pretty obviously a business transaction with her.....
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13 years ago
$60 for 20 minutes nude? The closes there is to that around Pittsburgh is an hour and a half out of town and it's $50 for 15 minutes nude. I wish your SC was here!
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13 years ago
You're right, when I'm at a SC as a customer it's all about me. But, when the dancer giving me a dance is happy, I have a much better time than when she isn't happy. Therefore, I try to make them happy.
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13 years ago
I have a question about #4. I've had two dancers who I've gotten multiple dances from tell me that they prefer it when I wear softer clothes, aka shorts without zippers and sweatpants, because the zippers in nicer clothes aren't very comfortable when they're giving me lap dances. Your answer here implies that you don't like it when we (customers) come in to your club where you're dancing dressed in sweats or athletic shorts.
I've started going to one club wearing athletic shorts because a couple of the dancers there prefer the feel of them for private dances. What are your preferences please?
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13 years ago
Where I live there are a number of clubs that don't charge for alcohol. They don't have and can't get licenses to sell alcohol, so they sell you a plastic cup for $1 and you can drink for free all night. If you're at a club like that, especially when it's crowded, when you go to the bar for a drink hold a $1 bill in the same hand that you're holding the cup in and hand the cup and the tip to the bartender. The bartender will give you your drink before serving the people who aren't tipping and your drinks will never be watered down. I told a dancer once that she should tip the bartenders to make the drinks stronger so that she'd get more dances and she laughed and agreed.
If you're driving home and you ask the bartender for water because you're driving and you tip as if you were buying drinks, many bartenders will give you a glass of water without charging you for it and they'll be happy that you aren't going to get in an accident on the way home that the bartender will be held accountable for in court. Even though the owner may grumble a little bit, the owner doesn't want his club to serve someone who gets in an accident either. Buying Coke or bottled water will make the owners who want you buying drinks happy. They don't care what you're buying as long as you're buying something.
I've had a couple of dancers say that they don't like pants with zippers when giving lap dances, apparently the zippers are not very comfortable. They'd prefer sweat pants or shorts that don't have a zipper, which is fine with me because they're more comfortable.
I agree with the compliments, as long as they're honest. I've had more dancers than I can remember tell me how nice it is to be complimented and treated with respect.