Comments by jestrite50 (page 9)

This is so right. I learned my lesson early on. I don't like dissapointment. Who does ? So why set yourself up for dissapointment by buying dances from a girl that you have no clue what or how she will do in the back. This is a fools game. First you have them show you everything they can and will do in the front room then you will know what they will do in the back room. (Within limits, I understand) but t a least you will have a better idea what to expect.

Never spend money interviewing girls in the back room. Talk to them, caress them, kiss them, IN THE FRONT ROOM. you don't buy a car Until You Test Drive It !!! See what they will do out front before being suckered into mediocre dances out back.

My favorite is my Toledo / Southern Michigan GFE. She only knows how to DFK no other kissing and she started it with me Front Room in Alcatraz, Erie, Mi. Within 5 or 10 minutes of when we first met and has continued ever since.

I am a road warrior and travel 5 states in sales and visit a handful of states for conventions etc. I find the good clubs generally stay good so I shop for my GFE girls at just one club in an area. If I get set up with a GFE girl in that town I don't go to the club anymore unless she wants to. We just do dinner, maybe shopping and then back to my hotel to fuck.

The last time I was with my GFE girl in SE Michigan. We left her club early. She said I had her so horny that we were going straight to my hotel and fuck. I showered first she had showered at the club. When I got out of the shower she was laying on the bed buck naked. I dried off and went to work titty fucking and titty sucking I ate her pussy real good and then fucked her real rough. I pulled out and she sucked me dry. When I tried to give her some money before taking her home, she didn't want to take any money. She said no we were "friends with benefits" I made her take it but I wouldn't have had to pay her anything. She said she needed fucked and had more fun than I did.

The point here is to not be bashful. Know what you want and go after it. This past Tuesday I had 2 girls in my booth. One on my left and one on my right. They both were stroking my dick under the table saying they wanted it. After the club closed it was off to my hotel with the first one and as we were driving to the hotel the other girl was blowing up my phone calling and texting wanting me to fuck her too or at least make it a 3 some. I declined to avoid the drama but she hasn't quit texting me yet. She called me Friday and wanted me to come and fuck her. She is 3 hours away so I again declined. The next time I am in her area Its a sure thing though.

As far as GFE goes those, if I find a girl I want for GFE I talk to her, tell her what I'm looking for and see if she's up for it. Many are and will jump at the opportunity. One of my current GFE girls considers it "friends with benefits" and sometimes won't even take the money I offer her unless she really needs it for some reason. She knows when she needs it I will be there for her.

For me DFK just happens. If I like a girl and find a strong sexual attraction. You know what I mean the girl that walks by and you say to yourself I want to fuck that girl. Well if it's a girl I want to fuck I just grab her and DFK her. Sometimes a girl will just grab me and out of the blue plant a big DFK on me. I was in Brads in Indy one night and this girl who danced under Cricket just grabbed me, ripped my shirt off of me and planted her bare tits on my chest along with a big DFK. When we came up for air we both headed for VIP for playtime. No negotiation no discussion we just did it !

Here you go sorry for the delay: Best Club The Harem on Dixie Hwy. Next Best The Living Room on Dixie Highway Third Best Cheeks in West Carrollton (on Watertower) Bad Clubs Stay Away: Sharkys, Katies, Pazazz, Pinups & Pints Medway

Every part of the country is different but "Midwest country girls" aren't afraid to sit on your lap and and DFK. It just comes natural to them. In SF maybe they are "stuck up" and want to be paid for people looking at them. I was in a club in Michigan Tuesday night and the girl gave me a hand job under the table.

I can understand how this could happen for Big Bucks from some celebrity but if it happened I would say the girl knew up front what she was getting into. I have also been to Cheetah many times and have never seen anything happen as good as at Follies. Of course I'm not a celebrity and could never spend like one for a quick piece of pussy. My Reaction to this: Bogus ! She's just mad because nobody would pay big bucks for her pussy.

Larry You need to speak up and tell them what you want and when you want it. Stop beating around the bush and get in the bush !!!!

I'm not into swing clubs. But I have friends that do. Some do the hedonism thing and go to "fantacy island" a couple times a year. I'm happy with my 3 -4 GFE girls that I enjoy doing. That's what you need to be doing. Don't waste your money on strip clubs unless you are seriously looking for a steady GFE Girl. Then when you find her spend your money on her. Stay out of the clubs until you need another GFE girl.

A two girl lap dance is a total waste of money. They call them a "dirty double" in this area. You only have room for one girl on your lap at a time. I have found that as one girl dances the other girl just looks on "with the meter running" total waste. I have opted to take them back separately in a contest to see who can be the dirtiest. I announce the winner after both dances. The winner gets my total attention (and I get hers) for the rest of the night.

The difference here is we only see the wives who stray or the girlfriends who stray. Even so divorce lawyers only see the problem marriages. Divorces may be running at 50% now but we also need to remember marriages are declining. How many people are living together who espouse monogamy. How many married people espouse monogamy. I think the statistics are flawed due to the fact that many people don't get married now but still live a monogamous lifestyle. Swingers are in the minority yet. Cheaters are in the minority yet in my opinion. I know most here will disagree but other forums would prove out that SJG is right, most women don't want multiple partners. I have been involved in some polyamory type relationships and they break down and do not last. Someone always gets jealous of time spent with this one or that one. One is getting more cock than the other. One girl comes home from work and the guy is fucking the other girl without waiting for her to get home etc etc. I doesn't last been there done that.

These folks are in a sales profession. If extras are available in most cases they will let you know that up front and ask you what you want and tell you what it costs. Then you can decide. The only time I've not been given a menu is where I have already been treating the girl very well with tips and I can think of at least a half dozen times where they just unzipped me and went to work and didn't even ask and didn't charge any extra.

Rule # 1 in my book: Never take your wallet into a strip club. Take ONLY as much money in with you as you can afford to spend along with your ID if it's required. Put your money in one of your front pockets or have it divided in to two bundles one in each front pocket. I have never been robbed in a club by doing it this way.

I have occasionally had this in the dive bars even. As soon as I sit down at the bar there's a girl sitting next to me. I always tell them up front "no I don't want you to sit with me" ! If she's sitting there other girls won't approach so it's best to get her out of there so you can make the choice. In a club where they seat you and give you a girl I would walk out immediately even before they seat me. You are better off cutting your losses and going to a different club instead of sitting there as a chump and taking cues from them. Even if I've paid my cover I would walk out immediately. I was in a club one time in Clarksburg, WV where you prepay dances. I had paid up front $65 for 3 songs with this hot little number. When I had already paid then she was in no hurry to dance. The bar tried to sell me more drinks. I saw through their game and walked out. Sometimes you have to burn a bridge and don't look back. Save your money for the girls that deserve it and stay away from these Rip Off Clubs and ROB's.

I agree totally with K. You need to man up and tell her what you want. If you want to date her Tell Her ! If you want to fuck her Tell her ! Stop beating around the bush with these girls and tell them what you want. We're all adults here and need to communicate as adults !

I think your target is right but I think the process went faster for me by finding them in strip clubs. In the strip club you can interview 15 -20 a night where in the dating services you can only interview 1 a night. Good luck though I went that route and it didn't work for me hope it works for you.

GoVikings is correct here. If you see something you want you need to go after it. The shy guys rarely get any pussy. Girls like men who take charge !

Girls giving BBBJ's take the risk that you will cum in their mouth. If she didn't want that she should have refused to give you a BJ without a condom. Her problem not yours.

I have only been in the Nashville clubs but in any club in Nashville that does bikini dances behind a curtain mileage can be had because you know what ..........bikinis bottoms can slide to the side.....tops can drop down in front ........all with her back to the camera !

@ Papi_Chulo What I am saying is in ANY CLUB , STICK WITH THE DANCER THAT GIVES YOU THE MOST MILEAGE ! Don't be hopping from girl to girl and then complaining because some girls won't let you have your way with them. I UNDERSTAND SOME CLUBS HAVE RULES AND ARE CLOSELY MONITORED, Don't go to those clubs then, But even in tough towns like Nashville I have played with and sucked titties and had FIV and DFK in private dances and DFK and FIV in front room sessions. I don't care what club you go to there will always be one girl who will break the rules to earn more money and some bouncers that will look the other way for a larger tip. Maybe not full service but anything they can do that can't be spotted by the cameras.

Yes all girls need to do their test drives out in the front room. There is no use to take a girl to the back if she hasn't passed the test in the front room. IE: DFK, FIV, Stick shifting, simulated BJ over your pants, hand in your pants, etc.