Comments by bluemonday (page 6)

ok, thanks guys, sounds like am too much of a PL to go 3-4 hours trip... so am gonna do it!

hey 3 leg, there's no PL's in my book, keep going mate and let us know how you get on next time... at least you only spent 2 on someone no good and yeah that long enough for sure right, maybe save up and be the WHALE man !!

.. so yeah i would have at least tried it out with C ... you had to man. A is always waiting for next time.

if your close enough with 'A' for the DFK etc, just get her number and tell when when your gonna be in so can come meet you eh? (get her OTC if poss ??) ... depends how good you are with her ?? if not try B next time ... then E F G ... TO Z !! i must admit i had a ATF like your 'A' ... who actually told me if i had dances with someone else, she would still dance for me, but no longer DFK etc ... (even tho of course she will have been doing all sorts of tricks with her own whales) but am guessing if i was paying, she'd be doing what i want, coz it's the money always talks, hence you lost her to the bigger spending whale ? remember always, you got the money, they want it, so spend it and enjoy

... you've been a girl that i've 'gone out with/dated' in the last five years or so ...

Had a similar experiance with my ATF. Spent almost all of my week on a recent trip, with her in in the club and dated OTC most nights, some great times, but just could not get any real 'action' free. Yeah of course it is what we want, to not pay so it is 'real'. But in the end (on my last day when it was too late) she says next time i'm in town, if i pay $400 and 'spoil' her, then she would finish in the club early, come to my room, 'relax' for a few hours then we can still enjoy go out later. Being 'spoiled' is just her 'mentality'. Next time, i gonna just pay! Am sure we are real 'friends', have been for a good while now and we still speak most weeks even though am from far away from where she works, but no matter how much 'friends' we are, i'm always gonna be paying one way or another for her even though i know she does actually like me. Basically, just accept, if you want to enjoy, just pay and enjoy ... still prob works out best in the long run than spending loads ITC, or fooling yourself you can have a real relationship ... just enjoy what you got ? And hey let's be honest, a real GF or wife is soon gonna cost you more than $400 too !!!!

thanks for the comment sofaking, you seem to get around a few of the ontario clubs so hope all is well and keep some reports and reviews coming as you get to club please. word is that extras in the mississauga airport clubs are still being offered, but both girls and customers seem somewhat wary, with some now opting to work from hotel rooms OTC rather than risk it in the club. i would think if any clubs were to be affected by this bill it would be this lot, with old farmer art's old stamping ground maybe set to be soon not quite the same. the majority of other clubs seem unaffected at present and having read a great deal more articles over the weekend, i see no reason why they should. there is nothing to say anywhere that lap dancing is illegal, it is only mentioned in terms of 'simulated sex' which would surely be impossible to define and therefore a waste of time to try and enforce and police. some clubs already stop this due to local by-laws (hamilton springs to mind) as said above, toronto and ottowa clubs are already meant to be 'non-contact' and have been for years, but still have plenty of good lap dancing going on. extras have always been a risk in terms of the law for our friends over the border and plenty on here would not club without them, can see no problem for canadian clubbers either now, but will interesting if anyone has anything to report anywhere that they have seen change across the country, or indeed anything of the law being made more apparent either in rule changes at their local or in the news.

what joesparty said: hate when the same 'fugly' keeps coming back and back, no means no !! ... main reason is the other girls see you keep rejecting, so the nice one you really want won't come over and i like them to come over and chat so i can suss it out, before i spend money getting a dance. other two types would be. the really gorgeous ones who just put no effort in whatsoever, you want em' but they just do rubbish dances or will not approach you for any sort of chat. or the ones come and ask when i am obviously trying to enjoy watching a paticular fave on stage and just get totally in the way !! best three later sounds good.